2006-10-12 04:23:30 · 15 answers · asked by jom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your dad sounds like a pervert, sorry.
2006-10-12 04:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by parental unit 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
This is actually none of your business. Yes, she is very much younger than your father, and as his daughter I know you love him very much and you don't want some woman to just come in and use him or hurt him. Age has nothing to do with loving someone, and no matter how old two people are they are very capable of loving each other. Your father is a grown man and he makes his own desicions where this is concerned. You should just be happy for the both of them and leave this alone. You need to give this woman a chance before you start making accusations because you could be very wrong in the way you are thinking. Live your own life and let them live theirs.
2006-10-12 11:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to sit down and talk to her. Watch how she and your dad communicate with one another. Just by doing these two things you can learn A LOT about someone. You can even talk to your dad about it. Ask him/her what they saw in the other. It's a 50-50 chance that she does truly love your dad and wants to be with him. Or as the person above said, she could just be a trophy wife. Just talk to them and observe them and you will find out your answer.
2006-10-12 11:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by val 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never know. Your Dad is the one that made that decision. You need to love your Dad and respect his decisions like he should respect yours.
Just try to get her better and you will know if she is really good for your Dad or not. If you do find out, find a smooth way to tell him. Do not argue or fight with your Dad about this problem.
2006-10-12 11:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Cesare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not for you to figure out. I am sure she loves your dad. Love knows no boundries and it is obvious by the gap in age. Don't worry unless your dad says something to you. Just learn to adjust. Look at the bright side she can help you out in crisis she has been then and can remember better that your older parents!!
2006-10-12 11:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by *~Love is Dead~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I don't think there IS anyway to know for sure except to watch them together and see how she cares for him.
The fact is that your father is a mature adult and you need to trust he's wise enough to have made a good choice for himself.
All the best. I think it's great you care that much about your dad's happiness.
2006-10-12 11:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by Q&A Queen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god. your dad married a 25 year old girl. are you rich? if you are rich then she may have married your dad for money. if you have normal stautus then she loves your dad very much. most of the girls marry rich and handsome men. HEY! NOT ME!I'M JUST 13. well i think that you are about 16 or 18 or maybe more nearer. well if she behaves good to you then she loves your dad very.very much
2006-10-12 11:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by love....me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, she is NOT a girl she is a lady. It is none of your business! Your dad should be able to know if it is true love or not. He can always get a prenuptial agreement if needed.
2006-10-12 11:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by Errolyn27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant. Your dad has already made the choice to bring her into his life. If you do not live with them I would not worry about it, as you do not have to live with her. I have had a similar problem. In the end, it was my dads decision and he had to live with it.
2006-10-12 11:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by salter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothing but a number. My boyfriend is 13 years older than i am. And you will be able to tell by the way she treats him.
2006-10-12 11:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by sweetsnickers 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a possibility that she truly loves him.
for now you just have to sit back and let whatever happens happen. if your father ends up being burned just be there to support him and help him put his life back together.
2006-10-12 11:30:53 · answer #11 · answered by Phenomenal_Black_Woman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋