i love his family and he loves mine. His family loves me, and mine loves him! Plus our families get along GREAT! I LOVE HIM! oh yea.... im only 17
2006-10-12 04:30:24 · 22 answers · asked by Jessi S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SLOW DOWN, RESEARCH THE MEANING OF MARRIAGE AND COMMITMENT. RELIZE THAT IT IS HARD WORK, THERE ARE ALOT OF UPS AND DOWNS, IT IS NOT A GAME.
OTHERWISE YOU WILL JUST END UP IN DIVORCE COURT IN A FEW YEARS.
THIS IS A SUGGESTION FOR THE BOTH OF YOU.
2006-10-12 04:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speaking from a mother's standpoint I'd say to you to wait. You are still very young and still have a lot of living to do. Finish school and go to college. If you both love each other as much as you say, then marriage can wait til after college. Trust me on this one, I married my high school sweetheart, threw college out the door and thought everything was going to be fine. We lasted about a year and a half. We were both too young and immature. Now, 15 years and a lot of heartache and financial struggling later, I'm finally back in school doing what I should have done in the first place. Your education is the best thing you can do for yourself so do it while you are young. Men will come and go in your life but a good education is something no one can take from you!
2006-10-12 11:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by lilbitadevil 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are way too young! It's great that you love him and your families get along great, but wait until you finish school. And I'm not just talking high school either. Go to college, finish it, then maybe you can start thinking about marriage. Believe me you are young, your mind is going to change a lot in the next few years. Whatever you decide to do, good luck!
2006-10-12 11:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Amanda♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking strangers for a clue is an obvious sign that marrige shouldn't be on your mind... You wrote about the two families being "happy" more than what you feel... there's something wrong, you must be able to feel it in your heart. Figure it out before you do anything. You could end up happy for years, but the small thing in your heart has a way of popping up when you are older and more patient.... It's a pretty hard thing to deal with after time goes by.
2006-10-12 11:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by Deactivate account 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not even think about marriage because you "love each others family." That part is awesome, but not enough of a good reason. You are way to young. Date him for another 2 years, if you feel the same, then go from there.
2006-10-12 11:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by educated guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have time for the marriage thing later. And if he loves you he will Waite for you. It all depends how you feel. And how he feels. Some people work out great doing the whole married thing so early. But you might want to Waite a graduate high school first.
2006-10-12 11:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsnickers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you can. You are way too young to get married. Experience life first. Travel see the world. Go to College or what ever you want to do. If you were 25 or older it would be ok. If both families are great they would understand. By-the-way, how old is he??
2006-10-12 11:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by steve s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married at 17yrs old had a baby at 19 and was divorced at 20 so don't rush in to anything, you will want to be single by the time you are 21 I promise
2006-10-12 11:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pump the BRAKES!!! My advice never marry someone until you have lived with them first. I am married to my high school sweetheart, but we did not marry until 23. We lived together 1 1/2 before we married. I am however happy to say we have been married 6 years and together 13 years.
2006-10-12 11:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young. I think you should be in the relationship at least 3 years. If he loves you he will wait. There is nothing wrong with a long ingagement. Good Luck!!
2006-10-12 13:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by Just Because 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT FOR A FEW MORE YEARS
you are just way to young to get married and do that. you can get engaged if you want to and have a long engagement but just don't get married for a few more years. This way if it doesn't work out you don't have marrage vows to break. I think you are just too young to do that. take time and live a bit
good luck
2006-10-12 11:40:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋