Ok so I have a boyfriend that I'm not crazy about...we argue and stuff and I'm always keeping an eye out for "mr. right" anyway this guy was kinda being flirty w/me and stupid me told him I had a boyfriend...don't know why i did but i did, somehow in the middle of our conversation it just came out...Do you think he took that as a signal that I wasn't interested? I think the guy was good looking and it has just been so long since I have flirted w/a guy I guess I just forget how lol
2006-10-12 03:50:43 · 9 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy you're sending mixed signals to is your BOYFRIEND... if he's not the one you want, allow him the dignity of finding someone who will appreciate him and love him for himself. Don't tie him down while you're still looking for the ONE.
I'm thinking you're very self-centered and possibly you should wait until you're more mature to be in a 'boyfriend/girlfriend' kind of relationship. For now, it's my opinion that you're better off just casually dating. You're obviously not ready for a committed relationship.
2006-10-12 04:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by clair_dlune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first send the boyfriend a very clear signal, like "good-bye, don't call me". Then look around for mr. right and no, it wasn't a mixed signal, it was an all out red flag, stop light, and siren to say you had a boyfriend. but it was better that the mess you could have been in w/ 2 guys, if you hadn't told him.
2006-10-12 03:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sylvia H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those aren't mixed signals. That's just how guys act. He's probably trying to work up the guts to ask you out. Give him a little time.
2016-03-28 06:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stay with a boyfriend if he's not Mr Right? What on earth is the point of that?
2006-10-12 03:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by stienbabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you just told him to back off. Maybe you need to get rid of the boyfriend that you don't like. Why do you need a new boyfriend before you dump the old one?
2006-10-12 03:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep mixed signals and IMO dump your so called bf. Obviously you don't care for him so do him a favor and move on.
2006-10-12 03:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouldnt have told him.
you could've just broken up with the other dude
after you scheduled a date with the other guy! lol
2006-10-12 03:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he probably thinks that you telling him that you have a boyfriend as a sign that ur not interested in him.
2006-10-12 03:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, tell him
2006-10-12 03:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋