Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
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2006-10-12 03:49:45 · 28 answers · asked by DiL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I disagree and agree....... they are at times very fragile..... like our feelings......but sometimes the putting back of broken pieces
are : - what life is all about.......??? it's what helps tap on our talent and resources we never knew we had.....it's the stepping stone to reaching maturity in a relationship..... whereby we are not entangled with the what if ... and what not ....and what should....but rather what we did to each other that was so so enmeshed and hurtful.... we forgot ..... the key point .... once we believed with everything in us : love with simplicity..... and joy .... that nothing on earth would shake that love ......that's what broken glass is all about....after it's shattered and putting it back will not hurt.... but heal... redeem and refresh to whatever you want it to be.
Having said that I conclude......it does not have to hurt.....it can heal.... with time and forgiveness on both sides.
2006-10-12 04:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would have to agree with that only half way...An old saying is "If the foundation is strong,then anything can be fixed". As I read these questions on here and seeing what I do outside of this site,people just want what other people have..Example, You are happily married someone wants the same thing or you are single and have no ties married people see this and think its better.If everyone would just focus on what they have and strive to make it better,then seeing what others have and wanting that,you will be suprised how much the divorce rate will drop and the kids will have both parents in thier lives.I don't get it...This is an excellent question...I hope my answer was a good also..not looking for it to be the best one, but would hope people will readit and give thier relationships every thing they have....I feel its time everyone should grow up,act thier ages and think before they commit to marriage/divorce...If you wants something bad enough,you have to work hard to get and keep it...If you think it grener on the other side of the fence,do some homework first and see how they are able to maintain it what was done to get it that way...I am a single father, I put everything I could into my mariage,but it was all onesided..My x felt she was missing out on having the fun she had before getting married,well with 2 kids and having to work after the break up,she missed out on more then just the fun...She literally destroyed 4 lives for the sake of wanting what her single friends had...This is sad not just because I lived it,but because it happens way to often....
2006-10-12 11:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do agree. Some people are just a waste of time. You spend more energy and time trying to make something work that shouldn't. We all have done it. I would say leave the glass broken and throw it away. Find a more beautiful glass to drink out of.
2006-10-12 10:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by bre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Broken Glass? Whenever I break a glass I just throw it away. Yep. I guess I agree. Pitch it in the garbage and go get a new one. Good Luck!
2006-10-12 11:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I canit say that I fully agree because it's a whole different situation when your married it for better our worse you must remmember taht your not dating and worse if you have kids. Also you need to analyz the situation or problem make sure that you put yourself first at all times. and love yourself dearly and respect him. Think it over and then try to make the best possible decision. Diamond.
2006-10-12 11:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by Diamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so deep, aww you sound so sweet.
It depends on how much you care for someone, and what has been done to break the relationship you had. Once trust is gone, it can be so hard to get back and then you might do the whole "he did it to me so i will go it back" thing and that can go on and on.
I think you should think about what actually broke the relationship and if its not too bad, then try and resolve it, if you love them :) x
2006-10-12 10:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by Tamara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriages are not ordinary relationships. I object to the metaphor because if your relationship was never stronger than glass, you should never have married. Here's a better comparison for you: "Marriage is like bones; when a broken bone heals, it becomes stronger than it was before."
2006-10-12 11:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is better to leave broken things broken, but like an old broken down car, they are hard to part with.
2006-10-12 10:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. I do agree that relationships are like glass but like glass u have to prevent them from breaking.
2006-10-12 10:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by June 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quite agreed... but for me, I will try to glue it back together again if i really like the glass. Of coz, it may not be possible or may takes very long time, n worst, may cut yoursef again. But to those glass that I really like, i dun mind getting hurt again... No gain, no pain... =D
2006-10-12 22:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋