what should I do? Im happy in my marrriage, but I always think about the younger one when I should not....
2006-10-12 03:43:50 · 15 answers · asked by whatever2006 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never once did I think about acting on this!!! I would not do anything to jepordize my marriage or hurt either the person he is in love with or him. I said I THINK about him...no more, no less.
2006-10-12 05:48:51 · update #1
You need to do whatever you can to get him out of your head. Disaster in the making.
2006-10-12 03:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, the right thing to do is to start thinking more about your husband and stop wasting time on thoughts about this younger man.
You, yourself are in a marriage and he is in love with someone else. That basically goes to show you that a relationship with him isn't going to happen.
So, instead of breaking up a happy home, start thinking about the positive traits about your husband so you can be happier in the relationship with him. Also, start doing more with your hubby like picnics, nights out to dinner, movies, etc so you have something to look forward to with him.
2006-10-12 03:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is okay to have thoughts when you are married. It is just not okay to act on them. If this person is involved with your friend, sister, cousin, or another family member LET GO!!! That is the 13 commandment. Do not deal with anyone who was involved with a family member or friend!!!
2006-10-12 05:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something else to occupy your time. Think about your husband instead. Find a hobby to keep your mind focused - or find a place you can retreat to when you start thinking of those guys - you need to break the habit.
2006-10-12 04:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are perfectly normal, and you should probably keep it to yourself...this can only lead to disaster. It's good to have fantasies once in a while, but think about the consequences of your actions.
2006-10-12 04:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe You should grow up and stop wanting things you can not have...If you are happy in your marriage then you shouldn't be thinking of anyone else but your husband....What the hell is wrong with you people..What is the magor malfunction?
2006-10-12 03:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, think of the experineces and fun. If your husband loved you he would not mind as he cannot do all those things you desire....This is what happens to alot of those religious women who save it till the Wedding night then realise what they missed. God Bless them all, it makes for more meat to market xx
2006-10-12 03:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasizing about another man is perfectly healthy. So long as you do not ACT on your fantasy.
Guys think about other women all the time. It is normal and you are human.
Just keep it to yourself
2006-10-12 03:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think why are these guys are attractive to you? Is the fantasy of wild passion or do you see these two men as more long term?
2006-10-12 04:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were truly happy in your marriage, you would not have desire for this younger party.
2006-10-12 03:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋