so i moved to my parents back house, they live in the front house. in the future i would love to get married!!!
my question is if you women consider that to be the same as living with my parents. or is it something that i am worrying about too much?? with rent being so high and buying one on my own is pretty much difficult i as wondering how a women would feel about living in ones parents seperate house.
please let me know your thoughts on this, thnx a lot!!!
2006-10-12 04:04:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
love conquers all
but inlaws in the front yard could be a stretch...ever watch everybody loves ramond? his parets live across the street and run them crazy
2006-10-12 04:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Stacy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider this as still living with your parents. You aren't in the same home. The cost of rent or mortgage payments are extremely outrageous these days and you made a wise decision to move back. Some women may agree to living in a separate home as long as your parents knock before entering. There are others who may feel differently. If you find a loving and understanding woman, then she would not question the living arrangements. She will be more concerned of planning your future together than worrying about your parents being on the same property.
2006-10-12 11:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by Old_Brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are staying in the same house with your parents but are in a cutoff section like a basement or other part of the same house. Of course that is still living their with them.
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If you are living in a total separate house but it is still your parent no, that wouldn't be a problem, that would save you money because it being your parents I don't think they will charge you too much rent and if I was your significant other, I think that would be a good idea. Any women should think that same way too, you and her can still fix it up and try to buy it from them one day. That is my thought to you:)
2006-10-12 11:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the relationship you have with your parents. If they are comfortable with you being there, and you can live your life as an adult without interference, I don't see the problem. Rent is unbelievably expensive, and it sounds like you have a good chance to get a little financial stability before settling down. Don't worry about what other people think as long as it works for you.
2006-10-12 11:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is a factor... a twenty-something man living with his parents is quite different than a thirty-something man doing the same.
Are you living WITH your parents or OFF of them? Do you pay a reasonable market rent for the back house? Are you employed? Do you pay your own way?
Many women are reticent about getting involved with men who don't show signs of being self-reliant. It's not being materialistic, but as an older, wiser woman I have no desire to become involved with a man who would be dependent upon me.
Points to ponder... huh?
2006-10-12 11:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by clair_dlune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better for you to do this if you're planning on saving money to get your own place in the future. But if you're doing this because you can't afford rent because you have others purchases that, in your eyes, are more important, then you're being childish. I could never go back to my parents house because I was taught to be independent. If I was you, I'd spent alot of time putting in overtime and saving as much as possible so I could get out quick. Good luck.
2006-10-12 11:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a problem if you use that against the person you are seeing at the time. " This is my parents house so (ie) my house. Been there done that. If the person you are living with is cool with it then ok as long as you remember not to bring your parents into the relationship. Good luck.
2006-10-12 11:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by valarie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how old you are, whether the "back house" is a pool house in the back yard of a mansion, and your financial situation, I'd say that not many women would want to marry a guy still depending on his parents. Ever see the movie Failure to Launch?
2006-10-12 11:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by slow-n-sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no problem with this. Back in the day, most girls lived with their parents until they got married. Nowadays as expensive as everthing is, it is a good idea. Me and my bf live with him parents, while we are paying off our bills so we can get a house and get married and stuff. It is a lot cheaper on us and we will be able to meet our goal sooner.
2006-10-12 12:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can become a problem because they are so close and even if you don't want to see them they are there. Watch "Everybody Loves Raymond" and you will see what I mean. As far as dating some I don't think it's the same as living with them but don't plan on staying there forever.
2006-10-12 11:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see how she feels , maybe at first it would be ok ,but then thing change, they may clash after the new wears off so I would save money for a move to save marriage if need be.
2006-10-12 11:45:30 · answer #11 · answered by martha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋