For you that have had a few and are not insecure about it, what can a guy do to make it less akward? I've had a few and I always feel like a complete azs when it is over or the next morning. It is like I am 'that guy', like I deceived her or something. But I know a lot of women are ok with it and sometimes just want a one nighter too.
So is there a certain type of guy that lets you know all you want from him is sex or does he do or say something different?
I mean I hear and see all of these purely physical relationships, but if I bring up the idea or tell someone I don't want a relationship just some skin, I am an insensitive ******.
Any Help?
And save the STD comments, plz.
2006-10-12 03:54:32 · 7 answers · asked by tightlies 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My first reaction to your question is that if you feel like a jerk, then it probably isn't something you aren't that comfortable doing.
If you are okay with it and she is okay with it and made it clear she is okay with it (you have to be careful, I've had friends that just say that in hopes it will get her the guy) then that is all there is to it. You shouldn't feel bad about something that is mutual.
As for approaches, being some what direct is important. You don't want to mislead a girl into thinking there will ever be more. If you can say it directly, you are just looking to have some for for the night, that works best. Personally, I don't get into it with a guy unless I know that is all he wants, so you don't really have a choice other then being direct. And if it pisses the girl off, she wasn't going to do it anyway. Just make sure you don't put it to a girl you may want a relationship with.
2006-10-12 04:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by emt42 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you want to find a lasting relationship do not sleep together. Find out everything about the person..and it takes months ..see if you could have a successful marriage....if yes..get married..then have sex.....because a sexual relationship prior to marriage will almost always fail.
2006-10-12 11:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
STD Comments? Hells no. One nighters are awesome.
And big deal, once in a while maybe you'll get the syph... but all that takes is a little penicillin. There, good as new.
And if you get crabs, you make crab salad.
2006-10-12 10:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Use married women mate they are up for the casual stuff and LOVE it go to the over 30 nights and take your pick
2006-10-12 10:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...you are a compleate A**. If a woman likes you enough for you to come to her place she trusted you and by doing that it violates her trust in men, then she'll probally get all cranky and start to eat a lot and say things to her co-workers like this one does to me, 'Why don't they like me'. Then they go through this self hate phases... arrgh. So please just stop doing that to my co-workers I don't have time for there issues with men because you gave them a one-nighter which they will say latter was crap. Just so you know. Gees. So to prevent more break-downs and heffers please stop your madness.
And no you can't be smoothe leaving either. Just make sure you get your things and err Run.
2006-10-12 11:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be honest with her and tell her up front. Or just leave while she sleeps. You know we feel the same way when we wake and find you still there.
2006-10-12 11:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
let the women know that u wanna fuc their brains out for just the night
2006-10-12 10:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by titties 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋