2006-10-12 04:43:51 · 24 answers · asked by faizan k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
REST IS ALL OK.
2006-10-12 05:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, good looking is in the eye of the beholder and unless you are the Phantom of the opera or some other such nonsense, you may not be a hottie but I am sure that you have the characteristics that some woman is looking for. So make the best of what you look lilke. Be neat, presentable and smell good.
Next, be yourself. I am sure that underneath what you think is wrong with you is a sweet, loveable generous guy just waiting to be discovered.
Go the extra mile. Be a gentleman. Women still fall for guys that open doors, pull out chairs and show up at their door with a single red rose before a date.
Also, you need to be willing to see women as more than just their looks. I am 41 and have been married three times and am engaged a fourth. I am not a model. I am not a cheer leader. I am a normal looking woman... a little on the fully rounded side, red hair, glasses and, according to three husbands and numerous boyfriends, I have a cute nose. Every man I have been involved with fell for me because of my wit, intellegence, creativity, excellent cooking skills and my emotional maturity. If you want women to see beyond what you consider to be a not so attractive facade then you must be willing to do the same.
I wish you every success at finding love.
2006-10-12 04:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Onegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's crazy if you don't think your good looking. It's these crazy magazines and the media that's getting to you. I know it's easy for someone else to tell you to be yourself, but if don't know how to be yourself or if you would like to change one thing at a time start with your hair. Ask some one you can trust how they may like to see your hair, or go to a salon and ask them, start with that, then, clothes, look at others do you see yourself wearing that jacket or shoes. So on and so on, a little bit of change sometimes will make you feel better about yourself. Join clubs, church, YMCA, going walking with others, there is always someone out there, and you will find that person. Just be confident or pretend to be even. I wish you all the luck.
2006-10-12 05:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by sweepit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously - I have learnt that looks are not everything!!! Truly! Not all women are shallow and superficial. If you do think you have some unattractive qualities try to think of ways in which you can improve them (if they worry you). A good honest look in the mirror ought to tell you what needs working on or if you have a close female friend ask her her opinion.
I thought I would drift along and never find "the one" after several harmful relationships I nearly gave up until I met my boyfriend who is simply wonderful. Hang in there! You will meet someone special! One day...
2006-10-12 04:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, You don't need looks to attract a girlfriend. All that you need to do is be who you are and nothing else. Women are attracted to a man that carries himself with confidence and class, not to add that charisma is a major turn on also. If you can have one or more of these attributes then looks are not that important. It doesn't matter how you think you look because a women might look at you and think your very good looking in her eyes. Just be yourself and carry yourself well.
2006-10-12 04:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, someone out there thinks you're damn handsome, so stop knocking yourself for that. Remember, looks aren't whats most important. It's whats on the inside that counts. As far as how to attract them, dress nice, smell GREAT (I recommend Sean John's cologne, or Polo Black), smile, have a warm and charming personality; that girls look for. Be a gentleman, have manors and walk and talk with confidence. KNOW you have the best things to offer to a woman, it goes a long way! Good luck, Sir. I wish you the best of luck!
2006-10-12 04:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by shondak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A short fast answer.Do the best with what you have and improve each day.Like in sales,numbers,numbers,numbers.If you ask out enough good looking Lady's there is going to be some that like the way you look and act.Play the numbers game but understand there will be some No's."Part of the game" Good luck you stud!!!!
2006-10-12 04:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by archer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women love a man with a great personality... and confidence!!! yeah sure good looks don't hurt and neither does a nice income...but when it comes down to it....we want a good honest man!!! And someone out there likes you for you!!! and probably thinks your the sexiest thing out there!!! so just be yourself that way you can find someone who likes you for who you really are
2006-10-12 04:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by scoobynscrappydoooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are neat and clean and friendly, you can attract women. The problem is that many men who are overweight and unattractive feel they should attract beauty queens. You need to look for someone like yourself. Neat, clean and friendly. Those women are looking for you. Good luck.
2006-10-12 04:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't compare urself with others. Be urself that u should be. Love urself, if u can't love urself , u can't expect others to love u. Build self confidence in u that helps u to improve ur overall personality and vice versa. Do ur work with full dedication and get success in life. I'm sure no woman won't be able to resist herself to see u.
2006-10-12 05:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by indu_kain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't be that bad looking, so just make sure you look decent! But the main way is to make them laugh and make them feel important to you, just dont come off as clingy right off the bat!
2006-10-12 04:47:56 · answer #11 · answered by John P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋