Shuold i tell i guy i like him?

Question

i have a crush on this guy that is very cute. but, just know he probably has a girlfriend or married,and he wouldnt be intersted in me.short and round girl
I HATE MYSELVE

i also dont know how to look "pretty" i dont know how to apply make up. i find it hard to smile (that isnt creepy looking) i get nervous around him.I feel he rather go out with the blonde sitting behind me because she is what is considered beautiful.
MAYBE I SHOULD WRITE HIM A LETTER CAN YOU GIVE ME IDEAS PLLLEEEAAAASSSEE!!!!

i dont really hate myself.
I just have confidence problems
but ido kind of like my hair and my face when there is not to bright because it gets greasy.but idont like that am 5'' 2' and i weigh like 185-90 pounds

Answer 1

Go for it, tell him you like him, don't be stupid and hate yourself, you are who you are and don't change yourself for anyone, if he doesn't like you for who you are, I hate to say it but he isn't the one for you. You are obviously quite young so this is probably hard to understand.

I hope it all goes well, either way I would be interested in how it turns out so if you ever feel like you want to talk about anything that I may be able to help you with dont hesitate to contact me either through yahoo answers or my e-mail address which is [e-mail]

Answer 2

My answer is long, but I think you need to read this...
I promise you that your smile is not creepy. You are original. No one else in this world is like you. You're your own person, you can't change who you are. All you can do is embrace yourself. No matter what anyone tells you, there is someone out there who will love you for you. What your going through now will be the hardest thing in your life. You're at that awkward stage when you wish you could be some model who looks like she stepped off Laguana Beach or something. You don't want to be someone like that, that kind of person isn't true to themself. They hide behind all fifteen pounds of makeup on their face and are just as self concious as you are. They lack self esteem. You don't want to be them, and in the end no guy will be with that girl. When that girl gets married she'll change and turn into some mom in surbia. What you need to do for yourself is be confident no matter how hard it is. It may seem like this gigantic hurtle that you can't make it over now, but in a few years when you look back at these years you'll laugh. Trust me on that one. I was exactly like you (shy, sure that no guy would ever like someone like me). Well now (a few years later), I've gone out with two really great guys. I may not be with them now but I'm a better person for meeting them. Be friends with this guy and soon he'll realize how GREAT of a girl you are. Trust me on that. It happened to me, it can happen to you. Just give yourself some time. And makeup is the least of your worries. Focus on your grades for awhile.
Good Luck to you. I wish I could have typed more but I have to get off the net now.

Answer 3

Sure, why not? And don't let the "he might have a girl friend or be married thought" enter your mind. I can tell you as a man that men quite ofren use that as an excuse to not take action. It's a cop out. And please stop saying you hate yourself ok. That does nothing for your self esteem honey. Be positive, smile more often and be assertive.

Answer 4

First don't be down on yourself because guys sense that and most don't like incompetence. Unless he is one of those guys that pray on the pity to get what they want and you wont be happy with that. Maybe ask him if he wants to get together sometime in a note or something if you want. But first and foremost build your confidence up and start liking yourself before you can expect someone else to like you to

Answer 5

Beauty on the outside is NO match to beauty on the inside of a girls heart!!!

well, you could try and grab his attention by:
Getting a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc.
Be yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not.
Don't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time.
Smile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!"
Flirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there.
Try to be around him often, such as sitting near him.
Show off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly.
Try to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them).
Go up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him.
Tell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together.
Be a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect.
You must always try to remember that you shouldn't change yourself too much.
Let the guy ask you out, make him come after you. Guys like challenges, when they accomplish or finish the challenge (asking you out and you saying yes) it makes him feel good about himself and like he has done something right and special.
A good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch!
Sit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested.
Listen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude!
Act confident but try not to seem stuck up.
'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it.
Consider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems.
Make small movements with anything e.g. pen.
Wear shiny jewelry and bright colorful clothing.

No guy likes a person who is snobby.
If he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was.
Don't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man.
Make sure to brush your teeth!
Be sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly.
Don't tell him lies.
If the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious.
You can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!

Answer 6

first of all, CALM DOWN. there is no need to be nevous around him...hes just a person, thats it!! And a lot of guys find confidence sexy, you don't necessarly have to be the model type to date him. Just have a little more confidence and just be yourself, and if that doesn't work, hes not worth the time anyway...and haven't heard the saying "never frown because you never know who is falling in love with your smile"? Its true girl!! and to be honest, he might find a letter a little creepy...

Answer 7

You should just go up to him one day and ask him if he has any plans for the weekend and if he says that he's meeting someone well i guess he's taken. If he says no ask him if he would like to do something with you. That is at least a start about looking "preety" well it depends on you body structure and what colors look good on you.

Answer 8

Being a woman, you have an advantage. Show him you like him. Be very forward about it and he'll know it. If he is mean to you, he's a jerk and you can do better anyway!

Every girl has something attractive about them, just use it to the fullest!

Answer 9

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Answer 10

sweetheart....a boyfriend is the last thing you need...you said you hate yourself so how can you expect anyone to love you? you need to learn to love yourself....being pretty isnt about make-up or looks...some of the most beautiful girls i have seen are ugly because the INSIDE of them is ugly...i want you to look in the mirror and learn to love what you see because if you dont...no one else will...look in the mirror and find at least one thing you love about your looks....when you find it, accentuate it and promote it...a few years ago i felt exactly as you do now and someone gave me this advice then i looked in the mirror and i discovered i have the greatest a*ss this side of the Mason-Dixon Line.....once i accentuated that one thing about me...i found another thing to love...then another..then another....try this babydoll...good luck