Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

im attracted to black men, i have two mixed children it just seems like "white" men were never attracted to me, do people in society look at me way diiferent? i dont try to be "black" i like all music i dont talk different like a lot of women who like black men do...because i have mixed kids will that stop white men from even being interested with me? please help??

2006-10-11 06:45:55 · 17 answers · asked by tesnrut 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 06:45:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He doesnt tell me anymore!He used to tell me all the time but here lately he hasnt.I asked him why and he said he loves me he just dont feel like saying it.I know when I dont love someone I hate telling them that I love them so thats why this worries me.He got drunk a week ago and told me that he loves me big time.Sometimes when I say I love you he will say uhh haa.Im telling him I love him when we go to bed or he is going to work I'm not overdoing it or anything like that.Your opinion please.

2006-10-11 06:45:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I already asked this question of the women and I was wondering what the men thought about it.

2006-10-11 06:44:52 · 7 answers · asked by misfit 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in love with my boyfriend and he is too but he is married and have 2 son's 5 and 6 years
he is with her only because of the kids what i can do? i am 25 add she is 42

2006-10-11 06:44:50 · 13 answers · asked by mar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why is it that guys always go for the girls who treat them like and make them feel like crap?? and the girls who want to be faithful and hella down *** for one guy.. get dissed all the time...??

2006-10-11 06:44:31 · 12 answers · asked by *CYN* 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 06:44:26 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

yes I would like to know is I was married 3 times and now I am divorced 3 times and if I get married again for the 4 time and my question is can I keep my last name or do I have to change to my new husband's last name and I want to keep my last name and I
don't want to change last names for personal reasons. yes I did
keep my last husband's name. and I hope somebody knows the
answer to my question.

2006-10-11 06:43:49 · 9 answers · asked by CELESTIN50 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I posted a question a few minutes ago about my ex and I getting back together. Ever since we have started talking again, he has not returned any of my phone calls, and has not answered my texts regularly. I feel like I love him, and when we are together in person he tells me he wants to be with me and losing me would be a mistake. Then when we are apart he ignores my calls? I need to express that this makes me feel terrible and confused, but he is really hard to communicate with. How do I let him know my feelings without making him mad or sound like I am bitching?

2006-10-11 06:43:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every one knows it happens..

2006-10-11 06:43:05 · 16 answers · asked by ash 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, what would you like him to cook for you?

2006-10-11 06:43:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I met online and married a year ago...we now have a three month old daughter. We can't really get away by ourselves because the baby is breastfed and has to tay with us, and my husband isn't really a senimental or romantic type so I cant think of anything to get for our first anniversary. We got married in a court house ceremony....The best idea gets "best ANswer" award!!!!!

2006-10-11 06:42:01 · 6 answers · asked by chicwitpurpose 2 in Family

a friend of mine ( a girl) and i (i'm a guy) have been good friends for a while, and iv'e fallen for her... how can i tell her? what can or say or how can i go about it?

2006-10-11 06:41:49 · 6 answers · asked by guitarbuttmunch88 1 in Singles & Dating

I spent the night with this guy from NC I met in a club in Homestead. his name is Shawn.and he said he was an electrician etc..I was smashed so I ended up the night with him. on Halloween 2000 we made love in his truck , I was not drunk but I never asked him his last name...I had a boyfriend at the time..I got scared...All I remember is him full of glitter from my costume.. I've been trying to find him since..I need to tell him that he was the only man for me and I'm so sorry I never called him. Maybe somebody heard about a Shawn,,he does electrical work.. and he used to stay in the Days Inn or Coral Roc motel with his buddy coworkers...if anybody heard this story from him.......or maybe you encounter a guy from NC..humble as it could be....black hair..about 6'0 fine as hell.....lol....rembember we met at a club in homestead called Peach Tree.

2006-10-11 06:41:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she is mad at me for lying to her, even though ui didnt lie to her......she's really sad and i dont want her to be....what shoul;d I do.if apoligizing to gher wont work

2006-10-11 06:41:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am married and have a kid and feeling that i am falling in love with another guy, he is 15years elder to me married and have kids also. I love my husband and my kid a lot, but some how i enjoy talking with him, its like i am myself when i am with him, its not a sexual inclination but i love to be around him. I know my limitations and responsibilty. we dont meet very regularly, but i cherish every moment I spend with him. I can share all my problems and fears and happiness with him. As of now I am happy with this friendship (a lot more than just friendship) Is there something to feel guilty about?

2006-10-11 06:41:25 · 12 answers · asked by twinkle 2 in Friends

i need something to wear for my wedding in 2 weeks. just something casual, doesn't even have to be white. anyone got any ideas on where i should look?

2006-10-11 06:40:17 · 24 answers · asked by Sandra C 2 in Weddings

"In marriage the bed is undefiled" Hebrews 13

"God is not mocked, for whatsoever a person soweth that shall they also reap."

have you ever sinned and gotten a broken heart from it-

did you ever tell God i want this person and then sin to get them-and then wonder what happened

Jesus says "Be not unequally yoked, for what fellowship hath light with darkness, and righteousness with unrighteousness." when your saved you get morals and principles and its your job to seek the same if u desire a mate-why not for life? friends first??

well your worth the best -not just a test and a failure-see the wonderful person u are.

I prayed-Jesus im sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen" and he truely has done that for me--- he promised in Revelation 3vs19&20 speaking from heaven (Rev.1:1) "Behold I love you, and knock on your heart to come in and deliver from sin (repent), when you ask me in i will become your friend." (sup is eating together) thanks:D

2006-10-11 06:39:51 · 7 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 06:39:11 · 17 answers · asked by Sansue 2 in Singles & Dating

She is a mime and she would not say anything when I called her at work.

2006-10-11 06:38:07 · 4 answers · asked by MЯ BAIT™ 6 in Singles & Dating

my wife flirts with guys all the time on the internet, but she doesnt flirt with me. i do everything for my wife. i clean the house, do the dishes, give her messages from head to toe almost every night ( anytime she wants me to rub on her)and i take care of our 3 children. I just returned home from Iraq and she didnt use to do it before. should i be concerned?

2006-10-11 06:37:56 · 27 answers · asked by soldierman69 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel so boring sometimes - not my life, me as a person.

2006-10-11 06:37:18 · 20 answers · asked by Sharon T 2 in Friends

I really miss my home town and the changing of the seasons. Is it wrong for me to insist on moving home just to make me happy? Where I come from is just outside of St.Louis in Illinois there is just so much more to do there. San Antonio is okay but its just plain boring and really hot.

2006-10-11 06:37:00 · 6 answers · asked by Eva 1 in Family

I have a wonderful 13 year old son named Steven who is the joy of my life. Last night I had a homoerotic dream about him. I dreamt that I was his male dance instructor, Howard, and I was teaching him how to line dance. While I was teaching him how to dosey-doe, I kept asking him to call me "Daddy Two-Step."

The dream then segued into a scout campout. I dreamt that I was his Scout leader and was teaching him to cast his lure. I remember that I kept pressing myself into his backside as I was helping him guide his fishing pole.

I just don't know what to do. This morning as I was making his cream of wheat for his breakfast, I couldn't even look at Steven without blushing and getting heart flutters.

How and when should I tell him about these dreams? Would it be appropriate to tell him on Thursday night, which is our mom-and-me date night?

2006-10-11 06:36:54 · 29 answers · asked by LaDeen 1 in Family

ok im19, i go to college in the next city over. about 3yrs ago i got a drug addiction and got help ect. i broke all contact with all my friends cause they were doing the same thing... i think they stll are. i have a great bf & one friend that lives in the city i go to school in. i just get kinda lonely ya know.... i also get nervous ppl will find out i used to be addicted to drugs and thats why i dont wanna make new friends that live in my town. what do you guys think? please give me advice! thank you

2006-10-11 06:36:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Those things are enormous. I can't help but stare.

2006-10-11 06:36:24 · 10 answers · asked by joshjones007 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 06:36:02 · 13 answers · asked by Simon C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, my girlfriend has been really depressed lately. she feels all of her friends are replacing her and that she's just a "back up" to them. I feel so bad and have noticed that they've been ignoring her. I need help because I don't know what to say to help her. has anyone else had a situation like this? what should I do?

2006-10-11 06:35:55 · 25 answers · asked by linked161 1 in Friends

I'm 26. My paternal Grandmother just passed away on Monday. My bio father left us when I was 4 and we have had little contact since. My mother has resentment for my father's family and will not be attending the funeral and neither will my brother because they think funerals are for the living. I kept in contact with my Grandmother through letters, cards and gifts on her birthday. I feel so horrible that I couldn't be closer to her or say goodbye. I took the rest of this week off from work. My mom says I shouldn't have. I took the time off because I am still deciding if I should go (the funeral is on Saturday). My reason for not going is that I am low on cash and the funeral is 7 hours away. I feel a little better today, less crying at least. My mom asked me "Do you think this (time off) is what Grandma would want you to do?" I just feel like I need to take a little time off even if I decide not to go to the funeral. I feel like my mom doesn't understand. Am I being too dramatic?

2006-10-11 06:35:37 · 12 answers · asked by ND 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have been friends for years and are interested in each other but who takes the first step and how do u do it we havent discussed it as couples but the men have and we know that the women are interested we just dont know where to start

2006-10-11 06:35:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends