I feel so boring sometimes - not my life, me as a person.
2006-10-11 06:37:18 · 20 answers · asked by Sharon T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go things you don't normally do.
sports teams, join a club, meet people at church, the park, the gym, sign up for community clasess. stuff like that.
2006-10-11 06:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You become more interesting to others by finding common ground with them. The good news is you already have your whole life full of experiences to draw from.
So don't worry about trying to suddenly become knowledgeable about current events or trying wild new experiences just to have something to talk about. Even people who have these things in mind can be real bores when they only talk about themselves and their interests.
Ask the people around you about things that are important to them--their kids, or their job, or what they do for fun. When they answer, try to find something that interests you both. That will be a natural starting point. They will get to talk about something they like, and you will worry less about "entertaining" them. That's when the freeflow of communication gets interesting.
2006-10-11 08:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by dukesgirl02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up an interesting hobby and meet lots of new interesting people. Sometimes it takes others to bring out the best in ourselves! Best of luck!
ps. Don't be so hard on yourself, I'm sure you're a great person!
2006-10-11 06:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by doodlenatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your charcater and personality should be a upper picker upper type with energy because most of the time epople tend to get down on themselves when things are not going great for them and so if they have a friend that is great to be around and always perky takling life like there's no problem...that's the one to take up after.
2006-10-11 06:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds dull, but if you read the newspapers or follow the news on telly, radio or on-line you will always have something interesting to talk about.
Don't forget the celeb and soap pages, for some reason people like to talk about them!?
2006-10-11 06:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by franja 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Educate yourself in the wonders of the world. Break from the mould and do things you would never dream of doing. try and see things from another point of view. Then write a book on everything you've learned.
2006-10-11 06:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Educate yourself more. Read about neat facts or cool places. Another way would be to get really good at one particular thing. Something that is useful to most people that way you can expound on that if it comes up. Also, knowing another language.
2006-10-11 06:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by joshjones007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not as bad as you think, probably. If you feel bored with yourself though, the best thing to do is to travel. You'll meet others, you'll be inspired by other locations and you will 'find yourself' underway.
2006-10-11 21:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by McAtterie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I use to feel that way, but God has bestowed all of us with gifts. What do you like? Read, sing, dance, swimming, etc. I like to volunteer at a hospital and help others. It feels good to know you help make someones day a little brighter. God Bless
2006-10-11 08:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by Selah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People (especially male people) always think you're interesting if you listen to them, and ask relevant questions.
Also, go to the library & read something you wouldn't normally.
2006-10-11 06:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋