Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

ok i have spent the last year of my life with an insane boyfriend who did drugs didnt wanna work basically was a waste of life. i broke up with him 3 times and kept going back. this time i really am not going back. its been almost 2 months since we broke up. but my question is why do i keep turning down these nice guys and thinking about him? has anyone been in a simular situation? or am i just the only idiot that keeps fallin for an assholes lies!?

2006-10-11 06:56:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 06:56:11 · 14 answers · asked by Bob M 1 in Singles & Dating

at one point i wus just taking wut ever was thrown at me i havent been in a relationship in months...and iam being as patient as possible because my mother and grandmother say that patience will bring better people to me..but its hard..

2006-10-11 06:56:11 · 8 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Singles & Dating

people say i need to trim it as it makes my garden look untidy. should i trim my bush?

2006-10-11 06:55:39 · 15 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 06:55:37 · 2 answers · asked by jay 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf lifted his hand up to me today he didnt hit me but he got really bad took a deep breath and told me to get lost I was sooo scared Now im scared every tym we fight hes much stronger than me but he really loves me hes NEVER hit me bf but could this be a sign that hes capable????Say why thank you all soo much!!!

2006-10-11 06:55:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with him a few days ago and about 2 months ago he got me a cell phone and just yesterday he asked for it and he wanted it back the min. he had called but then i told him i'd give it to him when i get a chance... he really dont need it because he already has one and i payed the 1st bill but he payed for the phone... So what i am asking is Do You Thiink He's Saying That So I Can Talk To Him Or Is The Just An Excuse For Him To See Me Or Somthig?? I Wonder...

2006-10-11 06:55:27 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend who went out with this black dude claims his got some magic down there! Whats so special. Ladies, whats the big deal!!

2006-10-11 06:54:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If so how did u deal with that person?

2006-10-11 06:54:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 26. My paternal Grandmother just passed away on Monday. My bio father left us when I was 4. My mother has resentment for my father's family and will not be attending the funeral and neither will my brother because they think funerals are for the living. I kept in contact with my Grandmother through letters, cards and gifts on her birthday. I feel so horrible that I couldn't be closer to her or say goodbye. I am pretty sure that I am going to go to the funeral but I am not sure if I should just go to the service, quietly pay my respects, and then leave. Or should I call my father first rather than just showing up unexpected? I really am not ready for a realtionship with my bio father, but I would like to pay my respects to my grandmother. I also don't want to make anyone uncomfortable by attending.

2006-10-11 06:54:41 · 6 answers · asked by ND 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in a tumultuous relationship for four years. The bad times were very, very bad and the good times were very, very good. I broke up with him, he broke up with me, and so on and so on. . .finally, in July, he dumped me via text message (yep) for a nineteen year old girl. They're moving in together at the end of this month.

I know that our relationship was never healthy in the first place, and I do NOT want him back anymore, but this has been killing me since July. I guess it's because he didn't just LEAVE me, he left me for someone ELSE. I'm not as bad off as I was, but I still think about it every day and get annoyed and sometimes I still get a little tear-eyed and mopey. I'm ready for this to be over! I've hung out a lot with friends, kept myself busy, etc., but it's still on my mind. Is it normal for this to be going on this long, or am I just a pathetic ex-girlfriend who needs a good therapist?;)

2006-10-11 06:54:30 · 3 answers · asked by Casey 4 in Singles & Dating

an older (half)brother who was about 22 years old who you met on a few occasions about 3 years ago and you both really liked eachother but, then like your Dad (also his Dad) he has not made contact for about 3 years and has been MIA (missing in action).

Would you want to see him?

Would you want him to be more involved in your life?

Or would you be fine if you never saw him again?

2006-10-11 06:54:26 · 14 answers · asked by The King 2 in Family

2006-10-11 06:53:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My lover and I have been trying to get pregnant and I thinks it fianlly happend but am I still able to achieve my goals and live my dreams with a baby at a young age(20)? Maybe Im just nervous? Help!

2006-10-11 06:53:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she looks me every second and when our eyes meet she smile kkkkkkkkk
so what is that meaning

2006-10-11 06:53:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boyfriend broke up about 4 days ago and we still talk on the phone like friends. he said that he doesnt want a girlfriend but he still loves me!!! so what things can i do or say to get him to come back to me??? we might go to the movies this weekend if he doesnt have to work!!! i only want honest answers please!!!

2006-10-11 06:53:03 · 12 answers · asked by mustangsweetthing 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-11 06:53:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you don't like a girl back they'll act different towards you like: not speak, ignore you, be rude to you!

2006-10-11 06:52:56 · 2 answers · asked by redbone 3 in Singles & Dating

He doesn't like being uxorilocal.

What should I do?

2006-10-11 06:52:38 · 25 answers · asked by Blim 5 in Singles & Dating

I love pantyhose on my wife or any another women that wear them i know theres alot of women that hate them an prefer to wear stockings, stocking arent sexy here an easy way out of wearing pantyhose but you still got a garter belt on that looks uncomfortalblly

2006-10-11 06:52:22 · 16 answers · asked by phil c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he is a friend i worked with i would love to hear how he is

2006-10-11 06:51:50 · 5 answers · asked by nancy_habershon 2 in Friends

please help me i just feel really frustrated please help me it seems impossible to make guys like me or a guy liking me.

2006-10-11 06:51:45 · 10 answers · asked by janhvi s 1 in Singles & Dating

i am shy and i dont know how to talk to women please help

2006-10-11 06:49:44 · 12 answers · asked by timothy e 1 in Singles & Dating

I finally got my wife to agree to have one acct for bills and one acct for the house & misc and the rest goes into savings.

The Bills acct pays for things that have a regular amount each month. X goes in and X goes out.

The House acct handles all the variables like food about $200 a week, clothes X, repair X, gas X. Most of the spending here can be controlled be deciding if it can wait -wait.

Since setting this up this way our credit rating has gone up, not stressing about paying bills and have made head way on our debt.

The problem is she is complaining of not having moeny to spend and I can't make her see that we need to be fruggle right now and spend smart. Any ideas on how to explain this?

2006-10-11 06:49:43 · 3 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

from him. I still wonder what would I have done and why would someone not taking care of that before they come see you. He was educated and nice looking and all that. We were sitting next to each other watching movie and it was hard for me to sit their and fininhed the whole movie.

2006-10-11 06:48:19 · 6 answers · asked by Alisha 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, what excuse did you give your boss?

2006-10-11 06:47:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend used to flirt with this girl on Myspace before I met him. At one point she sent him a package. In it were photos of her...she is some model for tattoos or something. Anyway, one of the pics was her being provocative with a banana. So she still leaves flirtatious comments on his page every now and then.

She left a comment on his page saying, "I'm bored." So I left a comment directly after her saying, "Perhaps someone should entertain themselves with a banana."

My boyfriend has to approve the comments before they are posted. He denied my comment and told me he was not going to post something that was directed towards someone else and was mean.

So now I am furious. Do I have a right to be mad? Am I acting out of line? Shouldn't he care more about my feelings than some slutty girl he never met?

Please help!

2006-10-11 06:47:02 · 11 answers · asked by Trixie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 06:46:59 · 16 answers · asked by Joe S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you are thinking you and he are in love and he tells you he got another you are devastated he smile ans say u will find another. no explanation are anything

2006-10-11 06:46:58 · 8 answers · asked by annjilena 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 18. And I am looking for something solid. I have met very many people that I would like to date so I am widening my field. I am looking for a girl with high standards. If you are interested leave a message.

2006-10-11 06:46:15 · 8 answers · asked by titainn 1 in Singles & Dating