please help me i just feel really frustrated please help me it seems impossible to make guys like me or a guy liking me.
2006-10-11 06:51:45 · 10 answers · asked by janhvi s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself, if a boy can't like you for being you then he's not worth it. and don't change just to get some boy to like you. be yourself, and be proud of it.
2006-10-11 06:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first, if you dress like a guy, they will treat you like one. You should feminize yourself a bit. You dont have to wear a dress, but wear clothes that emphasize the features of your body that boys tend to like (Boobs, butt). Also try being a little more removed. Guy friends always usually stay friends. Find a guy who you dont know that well, and make your intentions VERY clear. Guys need LOUD, CLEAR words so they will know what you want. If you see a guy you like, say "I WANT TO BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND", and they should take the hint.
2006-10-11 13:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Brad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you need to start dressing and looking the part.
go get your hair done.. if its short.. grow it out!!!!
next... put all those jeans and t-shirts in the drawer and go out and buy some skirts & blouses, and some dresses!!!
If you really want to go all out get a few bust enhancing bras.
DON'T wear anything too revealing and slutty.
Don't foget the makeup - not a lot... don't cake it on.. if you don't know how go to a store like macy's or something and have them show you!!!!
Once you start looking the part then guys will start forgettting you were the one who could out throw them in football or out dribble them in basketball.... they will start seeing you as a girl.
2006-10-11 13:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is definately a fine line between being attractive to guys and being to tom-boy. I hang out with a lot of guys, but I still maintain a fememinity about myself. I don't know how explain it. I still burp and make jokes with them, but I act like I'm a girl. I dress like I'm a girl. I do my hair like a girl and occasionally wear make-up like a girl.
2006-10-11 13:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by JayEmmBee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well are you a girl? And if you are then its probably not that you are being seen as one of the guys, when I was in highschool I played soccer with boys from the football team, and it sucked to have a crush on one of them cause they seen me more as a kid sister than a datable female.
I had to date out of my school.
Good luck
2006-10-11 13:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get feminine, dress and act like a young lady: hair, make up, the whole nine yards. If they don't notice that means they haven't reached puberty yet.
2006-10-11 14:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start acting and dressing like a girl.
2006-10-11 13:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit the football team!! (sorry) Follow the preppy girls and dress up like them and bathe in purfume like they do. That will help your case.
2006-10-11 13:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by jackalope_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me they KNOW you're a girl. Its their way of feeling comfortable with you. Just be yourself and you'll see what happens.
2006-10-11 14:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by JoeP 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
show them your taco
2006-10-11 13:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋