I was in a tumultuous relationship for four years. The bad times were very, very bad and the good times were very, very good. I broke up with him, he broke up with me, and so on and so on. . .finally, in July, he dumped me via text message (yep) for a nineteen year old girl. They're moving in together at the end of this month.
I know that our relationship was never healthy in the first place, and I do NOT want him back anymore, but this has been killing me since July. I guess it's because he didn't just LEAVE me, he left me for someone ELSE. I'm not as bad off as I was, but I still think about it every day and get annoyed and sometimes I still get a little tear-eyed and mopey. I'm ready for this to be over! I've hung out a lot with friends, kept myself busy, etc., but it's still on my mind. Is it normal for this to be going on this long, or am I just a pathetic ex-girlfriend who needs a good therapist?;)
2006-10-11 06:54:30 · 3 answers · asked by Casey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, you aren't pathetic. Some pple can go on missing their ex for 2 years or more. You just happen to be more sentimental than others. The first thing you need to do is become secure in your ownself. You know that the RS won't work out anyways, and you know you deserve better but even while knowing all this, you need your heart to trust the judgement from your brain to really feel the break from your ex.
What do you have to do for this to happen? Remember, a man who really cares and loves you would pursue you no matter where you are or what you do. So instead of dwelling on the outcome, let yourself know, the outcome is in his hands. As long as he doesn't call you or pursue you further, he doesn't deserve you.
For you deserve a man who loves you. And feel happy in that fact, and go out and date. Somewhere out there, lies someone who would give you a lot of very, very good times and very, very little bad times.
Before you know it, you would be over him. Wish you luck and God bless!
2006-10-11 07:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Freelove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not pathetic. It hurts when you get dumped. You need to go out and have fun. Do a little hooking up. No relationships just go out and kiss as many men as you can. Be a little promiscuous!
It's very theraputic!
2006-10-11 13:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your as stupid as i am ... look what has happened to me ...i still love him and he hates me its a ****** up world...next time do not make stupid things to make your loving boyfriend unhappy
2006-10-11 14:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋