I broke up with him a few days ago and about 2 months ago he got me a cell phone and just yesterday he asked for it and he wanted it back the min. he had called but then i told him i'd give it to him when i get a chance... he really dont need it because he already has one and i payed the 1st bill but he payed for the phone... So what i am asking is Do You Thiink He's Saying That So I Can Talk To Him Or Is The Just An Excuse For Him To See Me Or Somthig?? I Wonder...
2006-10-11 06:55:27 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You better hope he doesn't stalk you.
2006-10-11 06:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by D.J 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should give him his little cell phone back!!! it will make him look like a fool when you do give it back,asking for stuff that were meant to be gift when the relationship is over is a sign of total and for sure childlessness he is acting as if his trowing a fit for a little toy or something,be the grown up and tell him,"there,there here is your wittle phony so him wont be upset"besides you can hava a real man buy you another... the sign of a real man is when the relationship is over he just leave and dont ask for his things back.. what you had was a little boy,my advice is let him go specially if you say he has a temper.
2006-10-11 07:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it really doesnt matter which answer is right becsue - If he really wants the phone back because he is that cheap and imature than sister you definitly do not want him arounf you anyway. Give him the ohone and buy yourself a new one - you deserve it.
If he really is just making a reson t see you - has he ever heard of flowers - candy - moon light diners, let me quess not the romantic type. You dont need him - I can tell you from experince it never ends well to get involve with anyone that has a temper, becuse like you said it is a problem.
Give him back the Cell phone tell him you dont need him or the phone. get yourself out this Friday night and have your self a great time.
Cheers
2006-10-11 07:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by Dawn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him back the phone but before you do ask him to reimburse you for the 1st bill if he cannot or willnot do that then tell him he can have it back when you get the bill money. I personally would want nothing more to do with him he sounds a little off his rocker and you maybe should not see him anymore. No he is just being an as-----. Most guys like that are. Forget him and get yourself somebody nice who will treat you nice.
2006-10-11 07:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all... Is the phone bill in your name? #2. Did he give you the phone or let you just use it? #3 Did you HAVE to pay the bill or OFFER to pay it because he gave you the phone? What he's doing is a form of Control. YOU broke it off because of HIS action and or actions. He is trying to keep a tab on you because in his eyes...YOU hurt HIM!! He is just trying to hurt you back. Thank him for the phone, give it back. Then walk away. HE has showed his true colors... Now show yours! Good Luck
2006-10-11 07:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by larry h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a gift, so it's yours.
On the other hand, he is one of those clods who will think he has one up on you and now you owe him... something., whether it's to see you or more.
Even though, ethically, the phone belongs to you, it's not worth keeping it because this makes him feel he still has some kind of tie with you.
Have someone else give it back to him. This is a good clue for him that you are breaking all ties and will give him less opportunity to try and pull a fast one on you.
2006-10-11 07:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send, don't take, the phone back. If he has anger problems (which generally relate to control issues) do not be place your self in his power in any way. Cell phone aren't that expensive. Get your own. then it will be yours and he will not have a tool, however small to manipulate you with. If he wants to get back together all you need to do is tell him "when you can give me details about how the counsel ling is going we will talk".
2006-10-11 07:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by toff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he is going to give it to his new girlfriend. Couple of things you can do. Tell him you lost it and trade it in for a newer phone and get a new # and that way when he sees it you can say that the other phone was lost and you bought this one on your on. The other thing is that if you want ot be honest and give it back and not see him then tell him you will give it to a mutual friend to give him back or that you will stick in the mail box and he can pick it up like that.+
2006-10-11 06:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are leaving the relationship than give him the phone and let it be over and done with. Get your own phone in your name that way you don't have to worry about situations like this. Also do not except anything from him ever again because you already know that when things don't go his way he acts like the repo man and is going to come snatch your sh*t up!!
2006-10-11 06:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by Just Asking?!?! 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you really don't want anything to do with him (relationship) you should give it back because why would you want to have something that he can hold over you. If you are the one paying the bill go out and get your own.
2006-10-11 06:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by Stuffin 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah GIRL! He is trying to control you STILL. Back out! Try to distance youreself from him as much as possible but don't make him mad. Just be REALLY REALLY busy all of the time and buy your own phone so you can get him off your back. Seriously though, either mail it to him or get a friend to take it back.
2006-10-11 07:01:12 · answer #11 · answered by berkeleygirl19 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋