My boyfriend used to flirt with this girl on Myspace before I met him. At one point she sent him a package. In it were photos of her...she is some model for tattoos or something. Anyway, one of the pics was her being provocative with a banana. So she still leaves flirtatious comments on his page every now and then.
She left a comment on his page saying, "I'm bored." So I left a comment directly after her saying, "Perhaps someone should entertain themselves with a banana."
My boyfriend has to approve the comments before they are posted. He denied my comment and told me he was not going to post something that was directed towards someone else and was mean.
So now I am furious. Do I have a right to be mad? Am I acting out of line? Shouldn't he care more about my feelings than some slutty girl he never met?
Please help!
2006-10-11 06:47:02 · 11 answers · asked by Trixie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, I would not just dismiss internet flirting as "nothing", as some here are saying you should.
Flirting can lead to things.
It's very disrespectful of him to continue to flirt with her.
On the other hand, your banana comment was immature and out of line.
Does this girl KNOW he is in a serious relationship?
Does your boyfriend have his myspace profile set to "Single" or "in a relationship??"
2006-10-11 07:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by *nevermind* 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend was right to deny your comment; why get angry and catty when that girl isn't the one he's with? The best she can do is leave comment saying she's bored? If I were you, I'd feel sorry for her looking for any scrap of attention from your boyfriend. Don't bother with her.
I guess, though, what's important is that they were friend before you came along. You have to respect that to a certain degree, plus you'll earn major points with the boyfriend if you don't freak out and leave vicious comments and instead stay confident that he's yours.
Just remember--he's with you. He'd have been with her if he wanted her, but he didn't want her. He wanted you.
2006-10-11 06:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're boyfriend can't control what people are telling him, whether he has a choice to approve their comments or not.
I agree with your boyfriend declining your comment. You should be more mature than that. Don't stoop to someone else's level.
Just because he didn't want to approve your comment doesn't me he doesn't care about your feelings, I think he just wishes you were more mature about the situation. If he's not cheating on you, then you're good. Some girls are just ***itches!
2006-10-11 06:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I get why you are upset about this girl......she is flirting with your boyfriend, even if it is just over the internet. So, I would be pissed too. But, I dont blame him for not posting your comment since it was rude and crude and it would be on his page. Look at it this way, she can post comments and send him stuff in the mail and WISH she had your guy, but you DO have him. So, blow it off. She isnt worth the fight.
2006-10-11 06:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhhh....
I understand you're mad, but you have to understand that this is a person he considers a friend. He cares about her, but not the way he cares about you.
If you are angry that he got this 'care-package' - tell him. Tell him how you feel. But he will probably defend his friend as well. So, don't jump down his throat about it.
If he didn't like you - he wouldn't be with you. Remember that.
2006-10-11 06:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have every right to be upset, he should not be flirting with other girls especially in front of you. He should not be accepting anything from another women that is very disrespectful to you. I would cancel his account if I were you and if he does not like it Oh well.
2006-10-11 06:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Facebook is better than Myspace to me.
2016-03-18 07:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need to be jealous since she isnt close by, but i can see your point. its funny what you told her. create your own account in myspace so you can do your own posting to what you want. why should he rule what you say?? this isnt the 1800's we do have the chance to speak!
2006-10-11 06:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by countrygalsline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably be mad, too. It doesn't really sound like he is doing anything wrong, but he should respect your feelings.
2006-10-11 06:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by BJ M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was something he shared with you, he didnt mean for you to try and use that information to have that girl pissed at him for showing you her pic...that was before you , i say trust him ....after all you got him not her.
2006-10-11 06:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋