Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

My b/f and i just recently had a baby. I dont have much time to myself now. My b/f hasnt taken me out or anything because he says he cant afford it right now. Ive treid to be understanding about this and ive treid not to be too demanding of his time. He just recently went to a stripclub with his coworkers. It bothered me that he wanted to go( i feel uncomfortable with the idea of him looking at other women, especially after giving birth just 6 weeks ago) but i told him i didnt mind just as long as he didnt spend too much of his money. Later that night, he lied and said he had money left over. We had to buy formula for our baby. He then told me later when i asked for it that he had spent it all. He had about $150 when he left that night. Im really mad at him but this is the first time he has done anything like this. I dont know how to talk to him about it without getting jealous and upset. How should i talk to him and how can i feel better about myself and our relationship?

2006-10-11 07:07:03 · 10 answers · asked by jh21 1 in Singles & Dating

can the out side world help a man grow up to his potential? or what?

2006-10-11 07:06:34 · 19 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Singles & Dating

If it wasn't meant to be, why won't my feelings for him just go away? ='(

2006-10-11 07:06:20 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 07:05:56 · 8 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 07:05:44 · 8 answers · asked by Hot Star 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 07:04:52 · 17 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 07:04:07 · 11 answers · asked by noel s 1 in Family

He comes home from work and leaves again and on the weekends he is surely not home what should I do? I want revenge this isn't fair.

2006-10-11 07:04:02 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Something doesn't look cheap,
Something they can use/watch daily,
They like silver & turquoise,
No picture frames (too common)

2006-10-11 07:03:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Your man is the one in a committed relationship with you not her so why is it that women get mad at the other woman and forgive the man?

2006-10-11 07:03:36 · 20 answers · asked by mentalchallenge 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i love men but sometimes i think women are hot. and i agree with women more and most of my friends are guys. am i crazy or is it really possible to be a lesbian or bi??

2006-10-11 07:03:34 · 8 answers · asked by laura d 2 in Singles & Dating

Mine would be taking a girl on a private boatride in the san antonio riverwalk during christmas time. I was there last year w/ some friends for the Alamo bowl, and it was an awesome sight!

2006-10-11 07:03:20 · 2 answers · asked by jackalope_00 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 07:03:11 · 5 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Friends

I am 30 yo and married from 6 years. also hava a small boy 3 yo. From 2 years, me and my husband do not comunicate almost at all, and fom a while I discovered that he has afinities for a 23 yo girl. I don't think it is something sexual between them, but to her he smiles, he talks, he jokes... things that he doesn't do to me anymore. One of our friends is allways very nice to me, he allways make me feel important. he never proposed me anything, because he is also the friend of my husband, but I can see on him that he likes me very much. I think with him I would be happy (my little boy also likes him very much). But what our families, our friends would think?

2006-10-11 07:03:04 · 5 answers · asked by viola 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 07:02:13 · 15 answers · asked by kad052025 1 in Family

he sweet and can sing

2006-10-11 07:01:53 · 23 answers · asked by band gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

to IM someone and say things you normally wouldnt? Its someone your never going to meet so is there really any harm in it.

2006-10-11 07:01:06 · 10 answers · asked by marie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

If so how do you like it?

2006-10-11 07:00:59 · 23 answers · asked by vindezeal 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know I know if you are wondering if he is cheating he is right.. But I want to know tips and good tricks to hands down catch him just curious do anyone have ideas on ways to catch a man cheating or tips.

2006-10-11 07:00:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 07:00:44 · 12 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

means you will be together 24/7

2006-10-11 07:00:01 · 15 answers · asked by ladybird 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 06:59:59 · 10 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

or should that be handful???

either way, i like to have both full. what about you?

2006-10-11 06:59:41 · 23 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I share a checking account.

Anyway, he usually looks at the statements, I don't usually bother, but last month I noticed on the statement there is a $15.00 charge on there, I looked at the statements from previous months and discovered it is on there every month.

Anyway, it is a PAYPAL RAPIDSHARE withdrawl.

He says he doesn't know what it is. I think he's full of sh!t.

Is this a fee for a dating or a porn site?

2006-10-11 06:59:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Find a simple method of solving:
6751X + 3249Y = 26751
3249X + 6751Y = 23249

2006-10-11 06:59:07 · 3 answers · asked by sammy 2 in Friends

This is my boyfriend's first birthday since we've been together. We've been together a month and we love each other. My mom suggested getting him the cologne he wears. My friend said that was good too. She helped me shop for him and we got him Axe bodyspray and shower gel. She said it was okay to get him the shower gel.

Then I was going to try and find him a shirt, but I didn't see any I thought he would like. They had some nice warm shirts at Old Navy, but the design on them was military related or something and I didn't know how he would feel about that. Since I couldn't find him a shirt, I decided to get him a gift card from EB Games since he likes video games.

Do you think this is okay for a birthday? Cologne was definately something I wouldn't have thought of for a present, but they said it was a good idea. Please help me with this. His birthday is tomorrow and I still have time to return it if it's not good.

Have any of you had experience giving or receiving this?

2006-10-11 06:58:04 · 11 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 06:57:54 · 9 answers · asked by jay 1 in Singles & Dating

We used to go out about 5 years ago and i wasnt very responsible. I was 18 and i was experimenting with drugs and his parents hated me for that. We have been back together for a year now...and we are trying to get pregnant...i want him to tell his Mother that we are back together...

Am i wrong?

Should he tell his Mother?

Im a completely differant person than i was 5 years ago and i love him very much.

2006-10-11 06:57:37 · 35 answers · asked by Sum12Love 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am scared to ask him out and scared to call him how do u overcome the fear of rejection?

2006-10-11 06:57:06 · 15 answers · asked by ABBEY H 1 in Singles & Dating

His wife finally knows. He doesn't want it to stop, my friend is undecided. The wife is upset, but this couple seems unlikely to divorce and get along despite the affair. What should this threesome do?

2006-10-11 06:56:36 · 25 answers · asked by tarro 3 in Marriage & Divorce