Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

what would you guys do if you REALLY liked this girl and you guys went out but she kept breaking up with you but you kept running back to her because you liked her alot. but one day you try to get back with her but she goes out with this other guy that you know. you'd be mad right? but now she realizes that your the one she truely likes and asks for another chance. how would you deal with this? and because you liked her so much don't you think maybe there can be another chance? what would she have to say and do for you in order for you to give it another thought? what do you think will change your mind?.....and please guys, don't say sex. please help me and give your honest opinion and advice because i really need it.

2006-10-11 07:47:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl has been so mean to me lately. I was her friend, but then she was kind of ignoring me, so I told her I wasn't her friend anymore. (I didn't say why.) But now she is being way worse than I am- talking about me behind my back, spreading rumours about me, etc. How can I deal with such a mean person?

2006-10-11 07:47:32 · 14 answers · asked by coolbluepot 1 in Friends

I am scared to admitt to myself that the decission I made 2 weeks ago was the right one (to leave my fiancee - 2 years of relationship, loveless, dead-end, we were living as a room-mates not as a lovers for months!). I am scared to death of being lonely (30 years old, Europian girl). Also, I am frightened because I have some emotions for one of colleagues which I see very very rarely :(
So, I am running away from fiance to run into a something unknown. Therefore I have identity crisis (who am I, where I am going, what should I do, do I believe in love, in luck, in ..life? ) and I am crying a lot, for two months already, bad, bad, bad!

What is wise to do - to find a way to stay in relationship with ex-fiance (he is good and nice and that is not good enough), or to ...be alone on my own again and, maybe, terribly in loved in someone almost unreachable?!

Everything seems to be questionable!

:( ...and winter is coming, and I am so afraid of feeling loneliness and cold

2006-10-11 07:47:27 · 18 answers · asked by Eileen F. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im sixteen an shes 15.. she is in my class.. last year she had asked me to date this one chik and that ended abruptly..now she doesnt confide in me anymore.. we also have alot of things in common ... HOW DO I GET OVER HER??? coz i cannot stop thinking of her.

2006-10-11 07:46:43 · 6 answers · asked by dj_jughed 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 07:46:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dear Everyone,

I have been online dating “talking” to this man for the past 7 weeks. We have spoken about anything and everything. The age difference is that he is 37 and I am 30. I did feel we connected because we have similar backgrounds. We have decided that we will meet very soon, but, things have become abit weird. First, he has unhidden his profile on the dating site where we both got in contact (why did he do that for?), I will be honest – that he did sound somewhat like a “playboy” and felt as if he is just gaming around, but then I thought to myself, that he is a grown adult and why would he do something to this nature (we aint kids), and I did question his intentions going forward, he responded in a good manner. BUT! The weirdness just begun – he doesn’t return phone calls, or messages or emails. I feel like I am the only one getting in contact with him more then he is, I feel as if he has just gotten bored and try out some other people? Or maybe he enjoys playing with others minds? I found him being a nice person, but decided that I will not contact him till he gives me a call or something. I just need some courtesy from him, and I am sure I am not asking too much. If this was something that he wanted for an S/T and running away coz we gotta be meeting, I just wish he comes out with the truth with it. I don’t want to sound mean or blunt with him, coz he has been bruised bad by his past. Im just giving him the benefit of the doubt. I truly do like him and enjoy speaking with him, but if he’s gonna be running away – I need to know……Please everyone help me, and tell me if I am just imagining things? Taking things not in perspective? Or am just being too judgmental…..

2006-10-11 07:45:58 · 15 answers · asked by Fairytale_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm getting married saturday and i'm wondering where the flowergirl goes once she is done dropping petals, does she sit down in the pew or stand near me? also where does the ring bearer stand? the only other people in my wedding party is a best man and maid of honor

2006-10-11 07:45:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-11 07:45:30 · 17 answers · asked by The Guru 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Let's say you just got done having sex and the person says "So...did you like that?"

Do you always say 'yes.' regardless?

2006-10-11 07:45:21 · 7 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 07:44:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lies to me, lies to the kids, is remarried, having an affair, involving children with new girlfriend, lies about that.

2006-10-11 07:44:38 · 7 answers · asked by yp_katie_manchester_755 1 in Family

I did but now she wants it everyday, is this okay?

2006-10-11 07:44:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really want to know.... Is it you?

2006-10-11 07:43:00 · 15 answers · asked by Matthew C 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 07:42:54 · 12 answers · asked by David H 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 07:42:42 · 19 answers · asked by lilmama 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 07:42:27 · 15 answers · asked by sunny g 3 in Friends

We were together for 4 years, lived together for 2 of those years, and broke up a month and a half ago. He owes me about $300 and I have proof of it. He doesn't have the money & begged me not to take him to small claims court. He asked if we can work something out. I told him he can start working off some of the money by coming over and cleaning my home (I hate cleaning). And he can keep coming over to clean until he works it off. I thought it was a very generous offer on my part. He was all for it, until he mentioned it to his new girlfriend. She told him that the only way he can come over is if she goes with him. But, I don't want that woman in my home. She played a big role in ruining our relationship and I have no reason to be nice to her. Should I (1) make him come over anyways without his girlfriend, (2) allow the girlfriend to come with him, (3) give him a new deadline to pay me back the money, or (4) just take his butt to court?

2006-10-11 07:42:25 · 14 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend is back from iraq, fallujah and told me some really horrible stories happening back there. He recalled an incident where they entered a house and shot anything that moved after their truck had been hit by and IED bomb. he walked into this room saw the kids and shot them point blank. On close checking the bodies, he found they were just kids 3yrs-7 yrs. His wife is very troubled about this and is considering divorce and doesn't sleep in the same room with him. He gets nightmares too. My pal is very stressed from the war and can't believe he is not even welcome back home. What advise can you give me to give him?

2006-10-11 07:42:20 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 07:42:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-11 07:41:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is towards the end of it...

2006-10-11 07:41:21 · 27 answers · asked by meyepalguido 1 in Singles & Dating

whats the point of being attractive n a responssible person, if most the girls i meet dont seem to understand my situation? im 18, im a full time manager at a cingular store, i help my mom support our family, n im like a father to my 7yr old brother. i dont have much time for myself. now my question is, once again, why cant girls understand im taking on a great responsability that i dont n never will regret. im good looking, learned to respect women, since i grew up with my mom, why cant girls just work with me. (reason why i say im good looking is because girls tell me this, n then, well... theyre gone) maybe if i were a f*** up, lazy bum with nothing to do girls would date me. whats up girls what am i doing wrong?

2006-10-11 07:40:29 · 13 answers · asked by ikthes 1 in Singles & Dating

or i like it but not as much as i did with others? he is a nice guy who cares about me and would make a great father

2006-10-11 07:39:56 · 26 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

Belive me I gave some serious tought to sending myself lol but that would only get him in trouble and not to mention the fact that I'd probley die. I need some GREAT ideas. He's been over there for the past 5 Christmas' and I'm outta ideas for great away gifts or surprises I really need some Help/Suggestions Please. Thanks in advance.

2006-10-11 07:39:47 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Shortie♥ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend an i been 2gther for 1yr and 9 mths. Are sex life is great but there is one problem. It takes him alot to get hard. I mean he gets there eventually,but not in the heat of the moment. I have to play wit it first to even get a reaction out of it..lol. He claims he finds me attractive and wants me bad but when it comes down to it he just cant get there. Now he has the tendency to get aroused when there is a chance for us getting caught, but when we're alone there is nothing. I dont want to leave him. I talk to him about the situation and he tells me that he loves me so much knowing he can have me like this makes him nervous. Im his first so thats pretty understanding, but we been 2gether 2 long for him to still be nervous. Sould i believe him or not? What should i do about the situation?

2006-10-11 07:39:30 · 2 answers · asked by vanillaswril 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Homecoming is going to be in 3 weeks and i do not have a date to go. i want to have a relationship with a girl but i just lose my thoughts when i am around them. i want to know what to do to build my confidence up sp i can ask a girl to homecoming or ask to talk to them even.

2006-10-11 07:37:52 · 11 answers · asked by beaverman 1 in Singles & Dating

Sounds like fun even if it doesn't result in a match. Have you ever tried it? If so, what was your experience like?

2006-10-11 07:37:11 · 4 answers · asked by pearl101 1 in Singles & Dating

The last 2 people that I have gone on a few dates with have told me that they've never had a long term relationship (more than a few months). What do you think?

2006-10-11 07:37:10 · 10 answers · asked by powder_goddess82 1 in Singles & Dating

you saw that your fiance had pictures of his ex-girlfriend in lingerie saved in one of his e-mail folders??

2006-10-11 07:35:58 · 56 answers · asked by Nunya 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Please take a moment to comment on my "blog" today. . .

I'd love to hear different perspectives on this wonderful e-mail from my ex. . .

2006-10-11 07:35:49 · 2 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating