or i like it but not as much as i did with others? he is a nice guy who cares about me and would make a great father
2006-10-11 07:39:56 · 26 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think i got that "shallow" comment. its is not my first time, and i know what i like in sex, thats the prob, he s not passionate enough and i feel bored
2006-10-11 07:53:10 · update #1
No.
I mean I am not into the whole sex thing. I am more into the no sex before marriage thing. But you know... If you are like that then you should just be friends. I cant say just get use to it. Becuse he might be nice. But he isent the one inless you like EVERYTHING about him. Including the sex. Becuse I dont think that you want to have sex with a guy all your life and not like it. Becuse you want to be able to say...
yea... He gives the best sex ever.. lol!
2006-10-11 07:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what it is that hes doing wrong in bed, and make some suggestions. It shouldnt matter how good or bad hes in bed they can always get better within time, perhaps he hasnt got told what is good and bad, he can learn trust me, just tell him what you want. If you love him than sex is nothing you can fix that. If you can see yourself with this guy for a very long time than give it a shot. Your always going to find a guy with something that you dont like, in this case you can at least fix it. I think you should ask your heart if this is the only thing you wish would change and ask yourself if hes really the one for you.
2006-10-11 14:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might feel lots of anxieties, especially the first time you 'go all the way' - have sex. You may feel embarrassed about how you look without your clothes on, or worried about your privacy being disturbed. It's natural to feel some worries but good communication will really help to prevent you feeling embarrassed or worried. You should be able to talk to your partner about how you feel about having sex for the first time, and about any concerns you may have. Your partner might be worried, too. Being relaxed and able to share things with your partner will really ease the tension. And if you're too shy, or you're not able to talk about these things with your partner - then you probably shouldn't be having sex!
2006-10-11 14:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by Rishabh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice...get out while you can before 'guilt' or 'appreciation' keeps you involved with someone that you will never be happy with. It's no one's fault, but being honest with yourself could save you alot of grief 'down the road.' I don't suggest you tell him the real reason why you don't want to pursue a relationship as he sounds like a nice person who cares about you. There's lots of other guys out there that you'll cross paths with and staying in this relationship could prevent you from finding someone you'll truly be happy with. Don't compromise....you are the only one that can make decisions that are best for you. A girl has to care about herself.
2006-10-11 14:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares about the sex, who cares about what kind of father he'd make.
DO YOU LOVE HIM?!? It's about you and your feelings. Not any of that other stuff. Don't look at what he can do for you and/or your future kids, but look at whether or not your happy. If the sex is important to you, you can do stuff to improve that, I won't go into details, but there are hundreds of ways to make your sex life better.
You should only be with someone that you love. That's the main factor in the equation of who you should be with.
2006-10-11 14:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then why not try and show him more of what you like and just do different things. He's not too old to be taught! :-)
Finding one that would make a great father is a plus, but you also have to be happy to make a father happy and on to making the children that come along happy.
2006-10-11 14:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though there is more to a successful relationship than sex. Sex is still very very important. Human beings are sexual, period. You need that fulfillment and bonding with your mate. Is there a way you could improve the sex life???? Spice it up, or are you just not ATTRACTED to him? If there is no chemistry , it just wont work. Good Luck!!
2006-10-11 14:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by eagfan5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he is not good in bed doesn't mean you have to feel bored. there are plenty of ways for a couple to enjoy.. sex is important for a relationship to move to the next level of comfort. but if you feel you are being ignored or getting bored in bed, ask him. show him some soft **** or an x rated film & say "i want it this way".
2006-10-12 00:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by karan s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not everything in a relationship , but it is very important . I say if there is enough other good quality's , you can work on the sex part . Teach him what you like and what you need !
2006-10-11 14:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge your whole relationship by whether you like having sex with him or not. Do you love him? You can experiment with other sex positions and teach each other what you like if you both care about each other. That goes a long way, my friend.
2006-10-11 14:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by donna h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋