whats the point of being attractive n a responssible person, if most the girls i meet dont seem to understand my situation? im 18, im a full time manager at a cingular store, i help my mom support our family, n im like a father to my 7yr old brother. i dont have much time for myself. now my question is, once again, why cant girls understand im taking on a great responsability that i dont n never will regret. im good looking, learned to respect women, since i grew up with my mom, why cant girls just work with me. (reason why i say im good looking is because girls tell me this, n then, well... theyre gone) maybe if i were a f*** up, lazy bum with nothing to do girls would date me. whats up girls what am i doing wrong?
2006-10-11 07:40:29 · 13 answers · asked by ikthes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls need lots of ATTENTION! Not to offend but i would date a **** up lazy bum before a guy like you anyday.
2006-10-11 07:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is really great that you're doing all this for you family. But what I would think in your situation is if he is doing all of these things when will he find time for me if he can't even find time for himself. It seems like you are caught up in all your family affairs. Do you still live with your mother? If you do that is a red flag telling me that you’re a mama's boy and that I am going to have to deal with a mother that wants her son to have a perfect girlfriend and that I will feel like she is judging me. Is there ever a time for alone time for you and a girl? Or are you too much into your family to make alone time? A girl will want to get to know you before she wants to get to know your family. If you are trying to introduce your family while she is still trying to get to know you then that is way to much of a load. Try taking a girl out, just don't introduce the family to quick that should be later.
2006-10-11 14:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe most of the girls you are attracting are turned off because either they are just immature and stupid, or the more likely case that they might feel that you won't have time to spend with them, because you're so busy. Personally, I find it nice to hear that you are so responsible and yet still so young. Just keep doing what you're doing. Family should come first and then sooner or later the right girl will come along that admires everything you do.
2006-10-11 14:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by sexy lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's sounds like your not having enough fun for being 18 - you shouldn't have to so much responsible. Besides that, look for woman that are out of college and have a good job too. A college girl won't understand where you are coming from until she is in that place too.
2006-10-11 14:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Hope I Can Help :-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not going for the right girls..these girls you are talking about are selfish bitches! and no nothing about family. you sound like a great guy to me. actually, you deserve a really nice woman so maybe it's a good thing that these bitches r not for you. they will make your life a living hell.
don't worry, and don't give up until you find a good hearted woman comes along. some women can be so selfish and all about themselves...look for women who share your values and beliefs...seems to me you are going for the wrong ones..or is it that you are going for the beautiful ones that have no substance?
2006-10-11 14:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not doing anything wrong. It's just the girls dont' really understand much about your situation. If it was me, I would completely undersatnd because I also grew up with one parent and she needed help with bills and everything. You just need to find the right girl. I'm good for you but it's your choice.
2006-10-11 14:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a terrific guy. I would encourage my daughter to date someone like you have described yourself. The problem is that the girls your age are too immature for you and the older girls are not to the age where they can get past the fact that you are younger than them. try the older girls and leave out your age as much as possible. It is just a matter of time, you will find someone you seem like a unique spirit.
2006-10-11 14:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion you're not doing anything wrong. responsibility is good, especially at your age. you have a lot on your plate right now. at least you have a job ... i wouldnt want to date someone without a job. and to help take care of the family ... is the greatest. You're doing great and dont let anyone tell you otherwise.
2006-10-11 15:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by Daisie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls think they need all the guys attention...So they dump the ones that have things to do and really cant have time fro them cuz of the family and move on to the ones that dont....
2006-10-11 15:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by *~*~BABY GURL~*~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay the way you are. But, do things for yourself. It's is absolutely okay to be completely selfish sometimes and it sounds like you need a little of that. You are worth it. Girls will follow, trust me on this.
2006-10-11 14:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by BParker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋