im attracted to black men, i have two mixed children it just seems like "white" men were never attracted to me, do people in society look at me way diiferent? i dont try to be "black" i like all music i dont talk different like a lot of women who like black men do...because i have mixed kids will that stop white men from even being interested with me? please help??
2006-10-11 06:45:55 · 17 answers · asked by tesnrut 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of men are not interested in an instant family, and it may not be your looks and personality. I am sure that your children a beautiful, but being a role modeland/or father figure is a lot more difficult than just being a boyfriend. As you are out, you will find that men of all races will be attracted to you. If they have a problem with your biracial children, you do not want to be with them anyway. You want a person who is going to help, love, nurture, protect, and provide for you and your children. Stop looking at race, and start looking for the best man for you and your family.
2006-10-13 09:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by croc hunter fan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say that you are interested in black men...yet you still question if having mixed race children would stop a white man from being attracted to you....so which is it?...are you attracted to both black, and white, or is it because you feel that you have never had the chance to be with your own colour.
2006-10-11 06:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted/interested in black men then why the concern of what white guys think of you? Personally I am not attracted to girls with mixed kids as I would always be asking myself " Would she rather have a guy of another race?" But there are guys out there who it wouldnt matter to also.
2006-10-11 06:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, white men won't be interested in you especially since you have proof of your past with black men. If you are attracted to black men, why are you concerned if white men are or are not interested in you? If it's black men that you like, stick with them. I am a white female and don't find black men attractive...... so, go with what you like.
2006-10-11 06:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to just make the first move. i myself wouldn't mind dating a white, mexican, or litina guy. i have been approached but 4 some reason i end up with balck men. i don't think that just because u have mixed kids that white men don't find u attractive.u may have 2 be a little upforward.
2006-10-11 06:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you somewhat like a individual, shade or nationality shouldn't get contained in the way. however the back, interracial relationship may be a situation because of the kinfolk. some kinfolk would criticize on your decision of relationship. My view: My view would not rely, interracial relationship would desire to be considered by potential of the persons contained in the relationship, no longer the onseers.
2016-10-02 04:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person interested in you should not care if your child is bi-racial or not. If they are, then they do not need to be apart of your or your children's' lives. I've dated within and outside of my race, and have a bi-racial child. The child comes first, no matter what.
It's OK to date outside of your race. Go for the person who treats you and your children the best.
Good luck in your search.
2006-10-11 06:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by deszel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your children stop any man from being interested in you they are not worth the ground you walk on. interracial dating is not a bad thing if it works for you. i am biracial and my mom dated only latino and black men all her life. she is white. i personally date any man i feel like and if anyone does not like it they can shove it that is their problem and i won't take their problem on as my own
2006-10-11 06:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by jusme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont see a problem with it...but unfortunately in todays society people might look at the kids diffrent....not all but some....personally i am an equal opportunity dater. If you are sweet to me and the chemisrty is right doesnt matter the race. you should not worry what others think...you do what makes you happy. your only concerns are your kids and yourself.
2006-10-11 06:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by kristyn m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you a blonde? i noticed that most blondes like black men, why is that? as for white men going with you, most woul feel weird going out with a white chick and couple black kids, people would look and make them feel unconfortable, unless you can find a real liberal guy that its confortable with it,
2006-10-11 06:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋