i am in love with my boyfriend and he is too but he is married and have 2 son's 5 and 6 years
he is with her only because of the kids what i can do? i am 25 add she is 42
2006-10-11 06:44:50 · 13 answers · asked by mar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would end the relationship because whatever goes around comes around. Besides you are young and have a whole life ahead of you. You need to find another person whose life is less complicated. One where they can devote all of their time to you. As this relationship progresses, there are going to be problems because of his children, you will begin to feel left out.
2006-10-11 09:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by melivaga2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really believe that you are his first g/f and do you really believe that you will be his last? Cause if you believe that you are in for a very big surprise. Now if you want to swallow the "i am only with her for the kids thing" then you have to also swallow "i am only telling you i love you for the sex". Get out of this situation unless if by some chance he leaves his wife then you will be on yahoo asking if we think he is cheating on you!
2006-10-11 13:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you aren't respecting his marriage, so why should he respect a marriage with you? You are hurting him, his wife, and his kids. Run the other way until he is divorced. Saying he's just there for the kids means he just wants sex on the side. Sorry, but that's the truth of it all...
2006-10-11 13:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all say they're only there for the kids.
If he leaves, he'll be too broke to provide for you, once he's ordered to pay child support. You can't live off love, leave him alone. He's married, that's the bottom line.
2006-10-11 13:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is with her only for the children then he is better off leaving her and being completely with you and not the both of y'all. I would make him tell me if was her are me. and if he said her I would say it has been good but I have to move on with my life.
I want someone that can be with me and only me I am wroth that.
2006-10-11 13:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for the bad news, but, he will probably never leave his wife and kids. You are just a diversioin. good luck
2006-10-11 18:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can wake up to the fact that he isn't leaving his wife and move on ... he has no incentive to divorce .... why would you want to marry a cheater? he will only cheat on you for a younger woman later
2006-10-11 13:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look stay out of it. there is a whole family you are about to break up, if he wants to leave then he will, but if he wants to use you, then he will say i'm staying for the kids.
2006-10-11 13:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stop seeing him and try to salvage some self respect.
2006-10-11 13:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move one to someone that is available. Dont be a homewrecker.
2006-10-11 13:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by Maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋