He doesnt tell me anymore!He used to tell me all the time but here lately he hasnt.I asked him why and he said he loves me he just dont feel like saying it.I know when I dont love someone I hate telling them that I love them so thats why this worries me.He got drunk a week ago and told me that he loves me big time.Sometimes when I say I love you he will say uhh haa.Im telling him I love him when we go to bed or he is going to work I'm not overdoing it or anything like that.Your opinion please.
2006-10-11 06:45:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He says "UHH HAA? What kind of answer is that? Look,its very possible he cares abiout you but people fall out of love. I wouldve said maybe he's just getting comfortable and taking it for granted but for him to say "UH HAA" is pretty much saying"well, okay,but I dont love you". Maybe the two of you need a break,temporarily or permanatly.
2006-10-11 06:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
just stop telling him you love him and see how he reacts. If he is concerned about why you stop saying it that means he care and really do love you, but if he shows no compassion at all he really doesn't love you like he says he do. I been with my boyfriend for a year and 9 months. In the beginning he told me he loved me and i told him. Then he stopped saying it and i was worried so i stop saying it to. He approach me like you don't love me no more. it i told him you stop saying it to me. Now he tells me everyday. It could also mean that he male ego wont allow him to say it back but he really truly loves you. Just think of all the time you been together. Think before you question. You might come to a conclusion all on your own. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-11 06:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by vanillaswril 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when the relationship has gone on for some time seems like one partner or the other, may not be as much into the luv us....etc as before -
but that does not mean the love has dwained
trust in what brought you together
realize in time, people change and sometimes interest grow stronger or get weaker -
do what you can to keep it interesting on your part and love him unconditionally -
if shows you in all the other ways possible - he loves you
2006-10-11 06:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by Marsha 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is tricky not knowing either of you but it is possible he has gone into his "cave". If men have something on their minds they don't talk about it like we do, they retreat into themselves and become quiet and reflective. The best thing you can do is leave him in his "cave" until he is ready to come out. the worst thing you can do is try to draw him out of his cave by trying to get him to talk, he will just go further into his "cave". It is hard because you have to do the opposite to what your female instincts tell you to do.. I would give him some space, don't ask him what is wrong and stop telling him you love him and he should eventually come out and tell you he loves you or tell you what is wrong. Good luck with it anyway, whatever you decide to do.
2006-10-11 06:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by Caroline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he should be telling you this regulary if he REALLY loves you. And no you arent saying it to much. If you want to hear, "saying it to much"... listen to this. My boyfriend says it like in the middle of watching T.V, or taking a shower together, or when Im eating. HAHAHA!!! You will never believe this but my boyfriend just walked behind me and into the kitchen and said I love you baby...haha, what a coincidence!!!! but yeah anyways. Just tell him if he loves you it doesnt hurt to say I love you once in a while. And if he was saying it regularly before. I hate to say it, but something isnt right in your relationship! I Hope this helps you Girl!!! Good Luck with your MAN!!!
2006-10-11 06:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by TayNuz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Something is going on. Stop trying to force him into saying it. Approach him with an understanding attitude and ask him if there is something bothering him. It may be something unrelated to you. Maybe extra stress at work. Men show stress in different ways than we do. Just try to be understanding, it will work out!
2006-10-11 06:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. If he still shows you he loves you, then you have nothing to worry about. If he says that he's tired of saying it, then just leave it at that.
The word love is used so much that it doesn't mean as much to people anymore. Just as I noted before, if he still acts like he loves you and shows you, then you're okay.
If he doesn't show you, or you feel like he's not being the same person he was when you two fell in love, then maybe you need to move on or really tell him what's going on. Tell him exactly how you feel.
2006-10-11 06:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by marypaz 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, sounds like more reasons than that. Eating unhealthy will kill sexual appetite due to the fact that he is loading up on junk. And it puts 'junk' into his stomach and love handles. He needs to get into a better diet and exercise.
2016-03-18 07:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men feel after a certain time, they don't need to say it. However there are some who have lost family that can have a hard time saying it. Ask him and be honest. He might have a lot of things on his mind right now.
2006-10-11 06:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by Juleette 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
he still loves you, does he do stuff for you that is sweet,, to men saying I love you is a hassle and girlie, I think more men believe in actions instead of words,
tell him it means alot to you,, I didn realize how much it ment to my wife until she finally said you dont love me anymore, I said Why do you say that,, she said Because you dont tell me anymore,
I said I cook and clean and fix the cars and bring you gifts, that is enough to mean i love you
2006-10-11 07:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋