I spent the night with this guy from NC I met in a club in Homestead. his name is Shawn.and he said he was an electrician etc..I was smashed so I ended up the night with him. on Halloween 2000 we made love in his truck , I was not drunk but I never asked him his last name...I had a boyfriend at the time..I got scared...All I remember is him full of glitter from my costume.. I've been trying to find him since..I need to tell him that he was the only man for me and I'm so sorry I never called him. Maybe somebody heard about a Shawn,,he does electrical work.. and he used to stay in the Days Inn or Coral Roc motel with his buddy coworkers...if anybody heard this story from him.......or maybe you encounter a guy from NC..humble as it could be....black hair..about 6'0 fine as hell.....lol....rembember we met at a club in homestead called Peach Tree.
2006-10-11 06:41:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give it up, girl. This was just a fun night and a good memory. But the picture you have of Shawn in your head is just a fantasy and if you actually met him, sober and in the light of day, I do not think he would measure up.
It might be a better use of your time to explore what it is about this fantasy that appeals to you so much?
2006-10-11 08:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by J.Z. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame the drunkness, You don't know what this man had in terms of sexual diseases. If you was so scared then why did you sleep with someone you don't know anything about. This man could have killed you just because he probably acted nice to you at the club, when mens are out to get that one thing(sex) they will be and act in the best way possible. You did mak a terrible move, If I was you I wouldn't even try to find this man, you don't no his last name, you don't know if he is married or anything so why sweat it. Just remember you made a scary, terrible move with a guy in NC on Halloween. If you was true to your man you wouldn't even slept around with another man. This is just my opinion.
2006-10-11 06:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Chaotic - let it go. You have a fun memory. Hang on to that. If you hooked up with him again (chances are slim you'll find him with such minimal info) you'd be let down. Keep him on the pedestal in your mind and live happily ever after with that as it is. Years from now you can look back and smile and have that memory that no one can take from you. And just think...he probably remembers you fondly as well....the chick with the glitter :)
Move on dear...
2006-10-11 07:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by daisylane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah that Shawn... that narrows it down?!?!?!
Your crazy if you think hes the only man for you... hello? hes just some guy from 6 yrs ago who you banged after getting wasted and cheated on your bf. This guy doesn't need you in his life... Why, so you can go to some club one night, find some guy and cheat on HIM?
2006-10-11 06:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by !?!?! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One minute u say you were smashed , then you say you were not. Maybe you need a beer now. This was 6 yrs ago good luck I'm sure he's been w/alot of women he's a traveling construction worker.
2006-10-11 07:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by carmella.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK? YEAH GOOD LUCK FINDING FINE SHAWN AN ELECTRICIAN FROM NC. GIRL HOW OLD ARE YOU? YOU NEED SOME GROWING UP... HAVE YOU THOUGHT OF A.I.D.S. I THINK YOU BETTER STICK TO CANDY ON HALLOWEEN.GOOD LUCK FINDING THIS DUDE.
2006-10-11 07:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense but sounds like u need to get a life. U slept with him the first night, don't know his last name, yet he's the man for you? Okay... ?!
2006-10-11 06:46:40 · answer #7 · answered by LovingPerson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You weren't that drunk if you can remember that much detail. Forget him and move on.
2006-10-11 06:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by righteousrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋