Family & Relationships - 8 October 2006

he seems want to know me better after i'd introduced myself.. actually we know each other,but not so close,,just fren in the same college..in fact he called me almost 10times but i didnt answer him at all coz i'm so afraid+nervous+shy to talk to him.. is dat good to do like dat to him?? give me some responds plz..

2006-10-08 16:47:18 · 17 answers · asked by dyana 1 in Singles & Dating

well, i dont know if i even WAS inlove with this girl, but, about 3 years ago, i had a fling type thing with a girl, for about 9 months. she was my friend before that, and when we were together, we didnt need to go out, we didnt need to do things, or watch special things, I would just go to her house, and help her with things, and spend hours a day there, any time i could, and it felt like heaven. needless to say, we had a pretty rough break up, a very hard time for me in my life, i never felt so sick before. and this was like, 3 years ago or more, and to this day, i still catching myself thinking about her, sometimes i dream about her, sometimes i just sit, and purposly remember the times we spent together, even though I have a new girlfriend. i cant call her, she moved, and i dont know where, and we are on very bad terms, but, it doesnt change the fact, that if i saw her, i would just go up and hug her. it sounds cheezy i know, but whatever, am i inlove?

2006-10-08 16:47:04 · 7 answers · asked by billy a 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If they know where you are (regardless of how), can you call some number or contact someone to deal with it?

2006-10-08 16:46:00 · 5 answers · asked by Where's The Brain 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm talking about international long distance relationships, and I'm thinking of passport and visa issues, in addition to the regular stuff. I'm also certain someone would have to relocate for it to work.

Any success stories?

2006-10-08 16:45:42 · 5 answers · asked by Smiley 5 in Singles & Dating

I hated her the entire marriage. I got to know her after the break up and found out she was a great person. I maybe spoke to her a total of 5 hours in 13 years.

2006-10-08 16:45:39 · 15 answers · asked by jpb 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im going through alot of stuff,im 13 and i dont know what to do

I need someone to talk to

I cant talk to my family

Why do u ask:
Dad-works all day
Sisters-To busy in their own life to even speak to me
Brother-I dont even know
Mom-I`m sick of her

i need someone to talk to badly! PLzi need advice or a like hotline or something.

2006-10-08 16:45:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If he has several photos but they don't show more than his face and shirt, and he says he has lost some weight, is he trying to hide the fact that he is overweight? If you tell him what you do for work and he doesn't answer you when you ask him (this all done via email) is he hiding something? Thisis a guy who responding to my online ad.

2006-10-08 16:44:44 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 16:43:56 · 24 answers · asked by Nancy R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had just recently ended a bad marrage and now I just feel alone. Has any one alse felt this way? and how do you over come it?

2006-10-08 16:42:48 · 6 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm asking this because I'm so confused as to what friends I should stay friends with and which friends I should not hang out with too much.

I know people aren't perfect, I'm not either, but if I have a friend in which I enjoy some of their qualities but not others, then what do I do?

I could overlook the negative qualities but would it be beneficial for me to hang out with this type of person.

Should I hang out with someone I strive to be like?

Do you have any advice about friends?

Can people be changed?

Sorry for having too many questions, but one question just leads to another.

Thanks in advance for replying.

2006-10-08 16:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by bowlerdudeca 2 in Friends

Today my friend ask me to hang out with him and his friends. He came from another state so I was very happy to see him again. Due to my work scredrule, we agree to called each other when I was near where he was. The first time I called him he said to meet him at a certain spot, when I was close to the place, he called and said that they were hanging in another place instead of the one mentioned before. So I went there, and the place was in construction so nobody could step in. So I called him back and he did not pick up. I was mad since I was going from one place to the other for three hours, so I went home. I left him a message saying that I am going back, the place was in construction so I was not expecting him to be there.
I felt very upset since I though he treating me like an idiot. Later, I received another message saying that they were at another restaurant.
I called him back and he said that he noticed I was mad and that he was sorry, I said I was upset but its ok.

2006-10-08 16:41:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 16:41:34 · 8 answers · asked by dude looking for answers 1 in Singles & Dating

If everything in a relationship seems to be going very well, why would the guy start to pull away and what can the girl do to stop him from doing this?

2006-10-08 16:40:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everytime i think i found the right person thay hurt me in some way

should i just give up or is love really worth all these heart ake

2006-10-08 16:40:08 · 22 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

We haven't been sexually active eigher.. is this a sign that he wants more? Is he trying to turn me on?

2006-10-08 16:39:45 · 20 answers · asked by maria U 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have 2 children girl 15 boy 13 I have been alone with them for almost 5 years. I have never gone out pretty much given all my time and efforts to them. Now I found someone who I really care for and he cares for me. Is it selfish to start a relationship or is it ok for me to be happy now and have a life? What if they reject him? Do I just give it up or let them adjust and get use to it??

2006-10-08 16:39:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 16:38:59 · 13 answers · asked by Icess 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to be interesting enough (friends, girlfriends, marrige) but lately I feel very uninteresting. Is there anything worse than being uninteresting?

2006-10-08 16:38:54 · 2 answers · asked by AnswerBot 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 16:38:35 · 13 answers · asked by dude looking for answers 1 in Singles & Dating

My Problem:
I Live In Ontario, Canada & My girlfriend who is from here but now lives in Kalamazoo Michigan (for school). Its about 2-.5-3 hours away. And i cant stand being away from her!
What I want to do is move out there, get a job & an apartment maybe. But how would/should i go about doing this? I have very little money now. I have a dead end job. Right now she stays in a dorm. I know it would be worth it! Any thoughts/tips will be appreciated. Not too much negativity though ;-)

2006-10-08 16:38:18 · 7 answers · asked by cdnmapleleaf42 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm single and feel lonely often. I day dream of being with someone but at the same time the thought of a relationship is scarey and alot of work? I'm so confused.

2006-10-08 16:38:16 · 6 answers · asked by lilbandit77 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-08 16:37:08 · 21 answers · asked by florencia s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She calls me and tells me how much she loves me, and that she wants me back, and the next day she calls just 2 tell me that shes dating some other dude???

2006-10-08 16:36:44 · 13 answers · asked by Christopher w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

One of my friends is turning 21 on Tuesday and he doesn't have an ID- At the DMV they say he needs to have two forms of ID to get a picture ID yet he has no Social Security Card and No Birth Certificate without having to go through the state of Oregon. All he needs is something that has his full name, picture and birthdate- any ideas?????

2006-10-08 16:36:31 · 5 answers · asked by cjc 1 in Friends

We broke up after he got back from Iraq, because he had promised a girl that he had strong feelings for ever since high school that if she ever wanted to give them a chance he would drop anything to be with her. Take in mind that he is now 23. So in turn he broke up with me to be with her. During that relationship he moved in with her and proposed to her. That was a Five month relationship. He and I got back together after many discussions and talks with him explaining why he did what he did and trying to get my trust back. He tells me everyday now that he cares about me a lot and always tells me he loves me. He goes out of his way to make me happy and is very mindful of my feelings toward what he does. He has done everything possible to regain himself and my trust, but how can he show me that he is dedicated to our relationship and making it work no matter what may come? How can he show me that he would not just drop what we have worked for at the drop of a dime?

2006-10-08 16:35:41 · 14 answers · asked by Li Li 2 in Singles & Dating

i've often just told guys that i had a bf or my bf and i just brokeup in order to basically say no, i don't wanna be with you. then they just keep asking me over and over again to go with them, and i have to keep repeating myself. but i'm sick and tired of lying. my friends tell me that i'm just being to nice, but i just don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings, especially when they really like me. i also tell them that we can just be friends, but i heard that guys don't like to be told that. So i want to be honest, but i don't want to hurt him either, how do i do that?

2006-10-08 16:35:36 · 8 answers · asked by I ♥ Jesus 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok ladies i got a question. why is it everytime im interested in a girl im told to start off as friends but then its like not even a day after im interested in the girl and i start to try hookin up shes already lost interest in me and is on to another guy. its so discouraging sometimes i just wanna give up trying. i try being patient and starting out as friends but somehow i always miss my chance to be more than a friend. what should i do? any advice is greatly appreciated.

2006-10-08 16:35:18 · 19 answers · asked by zorlandkeirwulf 2 in Singles & Dating

Is this too young? I personally think it is.

2006-10-08 16:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by Kollie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 16:34:34 · 5 answers · asked by Lou 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

every time i like a girl thay flirt with me and stuff and when i ask them out thay say "i just wanna be friends" or is that playing hard to get?

2006-10-08 16:34:21 · 6 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating