well, i dont know if i even WAS inlove with this girl, but, about 3 years ago, i had a fling type thing with a girl, for about 9 months. she was my friend before that, and when we were together, we didnt need to go out, we didnt need to do things, or watch special things, I would just go to her house, and help her with things, and spend hours a day there, any time i could, and it felt like heaven. needless to say, we had a pretty rough break up, a very hard time for me in my life, i never felt so sick before. and this was like, 3 years ago or more, and to this day, i still catching myself thinking about her, sometimes i dream about her, sometimes i just sit, and purposly remember the times we spent together, even though I have a new girlfriend. i cant call her, she moved, and i dont know where, and we are on very bad terms, but, it doesnt change the fact, that if i saw her, i would just go up and hug her. it sounds cheezy i know, but whatever, am i inlove?
2006-10-08 16:47:04 · 7 answers · asked by billy a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes you are still in love with the first lady. That's why its always good to get other people out of your system before you get involve with someone else.
2006-10-08 16:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Futuremrsjacobs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling you compare other girls to her and they don't measure up, not even your present girlfriend. I have been in this exact place--still reminiscing, thinking and dreaming about an ex. I think it is only because you Were in love with her. Now I do not think you are really in love with her. I think you are in love with that Feeling you had when you were with her. You miss feeling that way and feeling so good inside. You are living in the past. That's all it really is. You don't fall for girls easily. A lot of people don't just become crazy about just anybody. It may be next month or a couple of years from now, but a woman will come into your life who will make you feel like that again.
2006-10-09 00:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by Christa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no way of knowing if you are still in love, but it sounds like you still have some good feelings for her. She must have been a very good person. You could always try looking her up, and saying that you feel bad the way that things ended and just let her know about the things that you feel and get it out in the open. But, other than that, it sounds like you both have moved on. Take care.
2006-10-08 23:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who can answer that question. Maybe you are in love, maybe you just can't let go that thing that made you happy once. Maybe it's infatuation. Is it possible for you to get in touch with her again? If it is, the do it and you'll know. If it isn't, then try to leave it all in the past and enjoy the opportunity you have now to be happy with your new girlfriend. Good luck!
2006-10-08 23:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that you are 'in' love, but I can say that you do love the person. Don't confuse in love with in lust. You will always find someone that you fancy and looks fade. It is rare to find someone that you can be with that will make the most mundane task a delight because of their presence. These are people that you will hold close to your heart always. You will learn that you can not share your feelings about her with your current gf. It is not fair to give her the idea that she is second in your heart or that this person is the one you want but you settled for her. Shake it off. A person should consider himself lucky if he goes through life and can reflect on a handful of people that he feels has made him a better person.
2006-10-08 23:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love her, and this will never change, once you love someone, you always love them.
but you are not in-love. It's OK to think about her, because in my opinion in this time and age of fast food relationships, we underestimate the effects people have on us. I believe she was very special to you, and you didn't let yourself realize it, and she is in your dreams popping up, because you pushed her down. You should acknowledge this, and move on. If she feels the same, go for it, but more than likely she has already moved on too. good luck.
2006-10-08 23:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by kiss me under the mistletoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am an sering to let you know you are not alone! You have a beautiful hard and sol.Cheer up
2006-10-08 23:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by SANDRA F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋