Family & Relationships - 8 October 2006

He is in AZ we live in CA. She will fly out tomorrow to go and cremate his body and bring him home so we can bury him. He lost his sister in a car accident 2 years ago. I am worried about my friend she is a teacher and we have been friends for 34 years since we were 13. I want to be of comfort to her what can I do.

2006-10-08 17:24:54 · 16 answers · asked by Cheryl M 2 in Friends

Masturbate? I feel that whenever I masturbate something goes wrong or like god punishes me. What should I do because I can't stop looking at porn and not masturbating is torturing me.

P.S. I'm 16 and I not a christian or muslim

2006-10-08 17:24:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday and he owes me money and is going to write me a check. He said that he would mail it to me but I told him I would pick it up so that I could send it out sooner because if I waited for him to mail it to me and then I mailed out the payment to my credit card company it might be late. I was going to pick it up on Tuesday from his apt (I still have the key) but after thinking about it I don't even want to step foot in there because it will be too weird and it's too soon for me. I don't want to call him because if I haven't made it clear enough I don't want to have to communicate with him because it's painful so...do I text message him with a "Sorry, I changed my mind, mail me the check" or do I just not tell him and not pick up the check (It may be worth $180 not to have to face him or his apt ever again). But if I do that he will probably call me. I know this is a stupid question and I apologize but I want to avoid him as much as possible.

2006-10-08 17:23:44 · 29 answers · asked by sleep2dream65 2 in Singles & Dating

Parents. As much as I try, as much as I get straight A's and be a good girl and daughter and everything, they are never proud of me. If they are, they sure don't show it. They just ask for more! What can I do to make them stop expecting so much and just be happy with who I am?

2006-10-08 17:22:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

They're adorable and cute I agree but some guys just go crazy and turn into perverts or rapists. I'm a guy and I don't get it.

2006-10-08 17:22:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 17:21:40 · 8 answers · asked by 103lber 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had a crush on this girl for over a year (pretty major, seeing as I usually forget about someone when a hotter girl comes aong), only problem is, she is dating my best friend. Add the fact that she was dating another of my friends before this, and that she also happens to be a good friend of mine, and you'll come to realize how screwed up my life is. I have no idea at all what i should do.

2006-10-08 17:21:38 · 16 answers · asked by Rafe 2 in Friends

I met her in class, she was really nice and talked to me first. The next class period, I asked her after class if she wanted to study with me. She said she couldn't since she had to goto work in an hour. The next class period, she asked me if I wanted to study with her the next day and I agreed. She didn't show up though, or the class period after (when we were having a test) since she was sick (and I got sick after she came back). She came back though, and we didn't talk much, but she still sat next to me in class like she always does. This past class period, she acted really nervous (she flips her hair alot around me, and was acting very restless and sighing a few times). I asked her out to lunch and she said "sure". She told me she has to work on our school days, and I said I wasn't on campus on the days that she was available, but I would still meet her there anyway. She just smiled and said we would talk and work it out. Does she like me or what and how should I go about the date?

2006-10-08 17:20:49 · 2 answers · asked by cracky 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 17:20:37 · 8 answers · asked by bubblegum 1 in Family

I have been getting mixed signals from her and the way she looks at me.we are both females ben friends for a while we get along great in everyway.

2006-10-08 17:19:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-08 17:18:29 · 31 answers · asked by wanttolpve 4 in Singles & Dating

Which is worse?

You die and meet satan or your spouse is satan?

2006-10-08 17:17:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like everything she likes, so i get worried when i want to borrow some of the stuff she has, she seems mean about it all the time. How can i convince her that she just has good taste? and then sometimes, i dont want her to know that i like something, because she hates it. Maybe i am just folowing in her foot steps and i dont know it. help.

2006-10-08 17:16:07 · 11 answers · asked by Me Being Me 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

you cant opt out you have to choose one...you are being forced to choose

2006-10-08 17:15:39 · 10 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when people have a red "x" on their hand or whatever color (i've seen black too) Its on the top of their hand and i've noticed that some of my skater friends have it. Does it mean like EMO or something?

2006-10-08 17:14:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my gilrfriends 18th birthday is comming up and i want to get her a good gift but i have no idea what to get her. we've been together for 8 months now and i was thinking a promise ring but i don't know. any ideas.

2006-10-08 17:14:47 · 6 answers · asked by davidd 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance has a hidasly funny last name and we are getting married soon. Every time I say it I cant keep from laughing and neither can anyone else. When said withe his first name its semi funny but when said with mine its so hideous it sounds like a joke. I can see it now......I am goin to die either laughin or from enbarassment on my wedding day. Any advice on how to deal with this? Oh yeah and I do feel its only right to take his last name.

2006-10-08 17:14:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What signs does he give if he likes you?

2006-10-08 17:13:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 17:13:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is movin in tomorrow--she just found out she is pregnant two days ago---my lease is up in eight more months and she understands i may move with my lover after the lease is up so it will be up to her to find a place. We tried to get a two room but the complex doesnt allow alterin of the contract so i just have a one room. Do you think it will be a good idea for her to move in bein pregnant and all? It will definitly help with rent and bills so i can save more money....please leave good answers and not something pointless thanks

2006-10-08 17:13:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A friend asked me to hang out with him and his friends. He came from another state so I was very happy to see him again. Due to my work scredrule, we agree to called when I was near where he was. The first time I called him he said to meet him at a certain spot, when I was close to the place, he called and said that they were hanging in another place instead of the one mentioned before. So I went there, and the place was in construction. So I called him back and he did not pick up. I was mad since I was going from one place to the other for three hours, so I went home. I left him a message saying that I am going back, the place was in construction so I wasn't expecting him to be there.
I felt very upset since I though he treating me like an idiot. Later, I received another message that they were at another restaurant.
I called him back and he said that he noticed I was mad and that he was sorry. I say it was ok. I didn't want him to think he is too important either.

2006-10-08 17:13:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-08 17:12:45 · 14 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-08 17:12:39 · 37 answers · asked by alittlecookoo 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems to me that there is a natural law that says that the man is supposed to be head of the family and the wife is to obey him. I mean you can't have two people with equal authority because they can contradict eachother equally and you have a paradox that to obey the rule is to break the rule.

2006-10-08 17:11:48 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

'm a guy. Shes been my friend for 4 years. I'm 16, shes 17. When i got back to school she was different. She was resting her arm on my knee, hugged me once, and stole my hat all the time. Then all the big stuff stopped for a while. But still tries to sit next to me, bumps right into m sometimes in the hallway. Writes on my arm and i think she touches my hand. Turns out her perfect guy desription fits me perfectly.A problem is she touches other guys too. Well she wrestled with one them once. She hits them like me. But it just seems like i get more attention from her. but she claims to do it to everyone. But the big problem is shes bi. One girl leans on her and sh*it. But thats nothing really. Yesterday, all of us are hanging out. We seperate for our reasons. But somehow it was just us walking to a resturant. The walk there shes quiet doesnt say anything. Then we get there its a little shaky at first but we just talk for an hour about normal stuff. We start walking to another resturant. I tell a great joke, so she put her arm around me and tells me im awesome. Then she suggests getting another one of our friends Kelly. But she says it like everyone to go ahead but me and her would go and pick up Kelly. She goes and gets Kelly. Both of them show up at the resturant. It's just us three. Turns out the girl im worried about now and kelly are having a bad unofficial relationship. I'm just there quiet while they talk about their problems. Afterward she hugging her, talking to her, being with her as much as she can. We are talking but it seems like she would rather be with kelly. But kelly doesnt totally want anything to do with her. So what i want to know is whats going on with my friend. Does she like me and what do i do about it.

2006-10-08 17:10:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My son is 7 months old and I fear that the men in my dating age bracket have raised their kids and don't want to go through it again.

2006-10-08 17:10:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

has anyone ever meet an incest child? do they really look all messed up like the movies show us?

2006-10-08 17:10:06 · 7 answers · asked by nikngbe 1 in Family

Hi my name is Jen and iam 15 years old , my crush's name is Nick and he plays varsity football.... He was new to my school and he was only in my morning metting room.. So on his first day i said hi and asked him where he was from.. Then he told me if I could show him around school.. so ofcourse .. i did..... Then 2 weeks passed and he saw me cleaning the teachers desk and since then he teases me and calls me Janitor... we usually flirt around by dissing each other but we laugh and we always keep eye contact.. One day we were playing around and he came over to me and said iam going to beat u up and choke u.. but he was just playing... he went over to my desk and put his arms around my neck but it was more like a hug... so to my reaction i grabed his leg and he said oh pressure... and he was like ouch that hurts.. playing around.. Then that same day he arrives at my locker in the afternoon and i turned around and i said u freaking scared me so he said oh so u dont want me to be here and i said no i didnt say that.. Then he said see ya around... b/c he knows we live one street away... A day after we have a parent thing in school to see our grades and i got to meet his parents and they were really friendly with me then he asked me if i was going to the football game and i said maybe.. i just dont have no one to go with.. so he said if i wasnt playing in the game i wouldve gone with u to spend time... so then today night was the game and i saw his couch screaming at him but i realized he was looking at me instead of the coach.. so he was staring at me and i stared back.. then he left........ So what do u think??? does he like me???? or not??

2006-10-08 17:09:44 · 10 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

lets say there is this guy but you dont know how to talk to him and are scared to. what do you say to him.

2006-10-08 17:09:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Masturbate? I feel that whenever I masturbate something goes wrong or like god punishes me. What should I do because I can't stop looking at porn and not masturbating is torturing me.

P.S. I'm 16

2006-10-08 17:08:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating