I've had a crush on this girl for over a year (pretty major, seeing as I usually forget about someone when a hotter girl comes aong), only problem is, she is dating my best friend. Add the fact that she was dating another of my friends before this, and that she also happens to be a good friend of mine, and you'll come to realize how screwed up my life is. I have no idea at all what i should do.
2006-10-08 17:21:38 · 16 answers · asked by Rafe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think i should add, that there is no way i'm taking this girl away from my friend, he's been a jerk lately, but is still my friend. I just want to know what to do until they break up, and they will, and afterwards also.
2006-10-08 17:39:54 · update #1
another thing i forgot to add, is that i've liked her since before both my friends, so that takes away the answers about wanting what i can't have
2006-10-09 01:10:56 · update #2
Nothing. Do nothing. Until she is not in a relationship look elsewhere. No relationship that begins with cheating will not end in cheating.
2006-10-08 17:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by The Lobe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT! At the end of the day, a friend is a friend. Not a girlfriend stealer. Plus, you may only want her because two friends have been with her. If she is so great, why did the first friend quit dating her? No woman is worth that (I am a woman). It would get ugly. Also, after being with her a while, you will be bothered eventually that she was with your friends. You will break up and then you will be without her and more importantly your male friends. Keep the friend pact. Friends don't do friends or their friends lovers. Find another girl and ask her out. Even if you are not that interested. Time away from the situation and keeping busy will soon put things in perspective. Good Luck!
2006-10-09 00:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, seems to me you're in some deep Sh!T!
Well, it's all up to the girl's choice at the end of the day......however, you'll have to make judgements on your friendship between you and your best friend, ...to me it's never a wise choice having to risk the friendship over a girl, right?!!
If the girl is really in love with your best friend, may I suggest that you'll shut up and movvvvvve on, man! ....Vice versa, if she's not, then it doesn't hurt to spill the beans, ONLY if you really want her, Good Luck!
2006-10-09 00:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone! Stop thinking about yourself! If she is your friend, then treat her as a friend should be treated.
Should she have feelings for you, she will let you know it. And should she leave the one she is now with and turn to you, that does not say anything for her sincerity.
Five million young lades, around this world are waiting to meet you! You have not met twenty of them yet, so get on out and live.
You have a lot of traveling to do, a lot of experiences to explore and many, many other people to meet!
2006-10-09 00:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to her. I am not sure, but if you really think this is a once-in-a-lifetime situation, maybe you should. After all, in the end, we get to be with our lovers all the time, but only with our friends some of the time.
2006-10-09 00:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by calliope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMFG
This happened to me about a year and a half ago, damn, this ends up in a messed up way.
After i ended up goign out with her, he was so mad at me, he wanted to kill me.
He said he supposably forgave me, but i know that inside of us, we really hate each other, and we want each other dead.
Now he is just a hypocrit, he tries to put me in bad with other people so that nobody hates him and that everybody hates me.
aint that some s**t...
well, if your ready to get into a fight with him, go right ahead.
2006-10-09 00:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in doubt, don't.
It is better to be innocent than sorry.
Keep away from her and all involved and your life will be sweet.
Then you will have the time to look for someone special who is even now waiting for you.
2006-10-09 00:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know that you will still want her once you have her? maybe you just into her because she's not into you? maybe your just looking for the challenge. once they break up you should give it a try with her if your best friend doesnt mind.
2006-10-09 01:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by suchacliche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an honorable person and don't pursue her while she's dating a friend.
2006-10-09 00:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by asperens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey watch " What About Brian" tomorrow night good luck
2006-10-09 00:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by yubuggin? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋