2006-10-08 17:21:40 · 8 answers · asked by 103lber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that doesn't even make sense. how can someone love you if they don't care?
2006-10-08 17:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known plenty of guys who love a girl to death, but they act as if they don't give a crap about the relationship and all they have to lose. I've been told by a lot of guys that they don't realize what they have untill it is gone. Maybe this guy loves you but just isn't ready for a serious relationship, this is hard for a guy. Guys enjoy their freedom a lot more than most women do. This is what happened to my last relationship. We loved each other to death but we got to serious to fast and after two years he realized he didn't want a serious relationship that he wasn't ready to settle down, we ended up breaking up over it but we both still love each other and still talk, it's hard.
2006-10-09 00:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by curious_and_hopeful 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are like gardens, you have got to nurture them, and when only one person does all the work, it can turn out to be a bed of weeds, sooner or later, you will get tired of doing all the work and maybe end up searching out another partner.
2006-10-09 00:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything to make it work. When he notices that you're not doing what you used to do, he'll come around. It'll get his attention and he'll start working on the relationship. That's how things work--if you're doing too much for the relationship, he'll take you for granted and kind of back away, but if you play hard to get, he'll be after you.
2006-10-09 01:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Pinkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess just talk and figure out if the other person even wants the realtionship...i think you can be in love, but one person might not want to be tied down or held back, or maybe if you fight they just dont have any interest in taking the time to really resolve issues...if they dont want to work at the relationship, its probably going to suffer...so i guess just ask them if they want to stay with you...if yes, resolve some problems, if no-move on...good luck
2006-10-09 00:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by thatgirluknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do my best effort to take care of the relationship.. but only as long as i'm appreciated whether i'm loved by my spouse or not... relationship is a compromise.. it takes both parties to make it work!
2006-10-09 00:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by I need a vacation! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your the only one in the relationship fool
2006-10-09 00:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by firered 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
X_X ill be sad of course but i cant tell him that he has to care... he needs to do it on his own with me telling him...
2006-10-09 00:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by mcDhang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋