'm a guy. Shes been my friend for 4 years. I'm 16, shes 17. When i got back to school she was different. She was resting her arm on my knee, hugged me once, and stole my hat all the time. Then all the big stuff stopped for a while. But still tries to sit next to me, bumps right into m sometimes in the hallway. Writes on my arm and i think she touches my hand. Turns out her perfect guy desription fits me perfectly.A problem is she touches other guys too. Well she wrestled with one them once. She hits them like me. But it just seems like i get more attention from her. but she claims to do it to everyone. But the big problem is shes bi. One girl leans on her and sh*it. But thats nothing really. Yesterday, all of us are hanging out. We seperate for our reasons. But somehow it was just us walking to a resturant. The walk there shes quiet doesnt say anything. Then we get there its a little shaky at first but we just talk for an hour about normal stuff. We start walking to another resturant. I tell a great joke, so she put her arm around me and tells me im awesome. Then she suggests getting another one of our friends Kelly. But she says it like everyone to go ahead but me and her would go and pick up Kelly. She goes and gets Kelly. Both of them show up at the resturant. It's just us three. Turns out the girl im worried about now and kelly are having a bad unofficial relationship. I'm just there quiet while they talk about their problems. Afterward she hugging her, talking to her, being with her as much as she can. We are talking but it seems like she would rather be with kelly. But kelly doesnt totally want anything to do with her. So what i want to know is whats going on with my friend. Does she like me and what do i do about it.
2006-10-08 17:10:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You seem great. Forget the girl. She doesn't know what she wants, who she wants to be with, etc. Give her time to find out that stuff. Stick around as a friend through all this and it may pay off.... in a lifetime friendship. Maybe more, but definitely that. Also, for some reason, women tend to want what they think they can't have. Date someone else. It will also give you a sense of perspective with this girl.
2006-10-08 17:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by kbuchanan802000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ur life is complicated. im 15, and i go through less in 5 years
well, i suggest you and her just be friends. even though she might like you, you might just not be comfortable with her yet...even if you've been friends for 4 years. this has NOTHING to do with being against bi's or transgendered, its just about that wonderful line between friendship and love. (you know, the chalk one that you always want to cross, but never can...)
plus, it seems like she's a bit of a flirt. not in a bad way at all, since all girls do it, but she just likes to mess around with guys and have some fun. one hug can't build a relationship. she might just like to be around you, or like spending time with you. if kelly is the one she's after, then there's not much you can do except talk to her about it.
you were probably a little uncomfortable (like "alrighty then" uncomfortable) when her and kelly were at the resturant settling their feelings.
if you really like her the only thing you can do is ask her if she likes you. this may seem dumb (cause it kinds is) and lame (ya that too) but its the best thing to do rite now. kelly may be more appealing to her and you mite have to accept that.
hang on. you'll be fine either way. stay friends no matter what. hope i helped!
and by the way, i love stealing people's hats. its so much fun....
2006-10-09 00:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a game of cat and mouse, and she's throwing you the cheese but you gotta get to it. In other words, it sounds like she likes you but she's playing hard to get and she wants you to make a move on her. If you like her go for it, or just straight up ask her. Or just go out on a casual date and see how far that takes you.
2006-10-09 00:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's a big flirt. people like that can be really confusing. just straight up ask her if she likes you.. if she does she does if she doesnt then she doesnt. but dont take that " i dont know" crap that usually means NO
2006-10-09 00:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she would like to have both of you .....but i could be wrong .but she doesn't sound like she is just looking for one sounds like she is a ho..sorry no disrespect
2006-10-09 01:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by JENNIFER D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she doesn't even know that answer to that question
2006-10-09 00:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u aviluse do not love her just be freinds.
2006-10-09 00:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sierra k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋