Family & Relationships - 8 October 2006

So I need help...I keep it simple and to the point because there is a long story invovled but the shorter the better.

My best friend since middle school and I have always been close. I'm gay and he just adores the crap out of me for it. We just graduated high school and are now in college and I've been in love with this guy every since we became friends and the problem is I think he's gay but has a serious gold diggin' girlfriend and he's afraid to come out. I'm so jealous of her...but I hate how he can't be himself because he's afraid. He's a big military kind of guy too by the way.

Reasons why I think he's gay: He has a nickname for me, we have a history of messing around, and I when I moved away for college he cried so hard when I left. He is way way way protective of me, especially when I talk to other gay guys. He talks about me to everyone all the time from what I'm told. He always 'plays around' with me and talks to me dirty and **** like that...!! How do I win him?

2006-10-08 17:56:45 · 5 answers · asked by cdnis06 1 in Friends

Me and her have talked for prolly 3 years and Ive really started to care for her...shes more mature than most girls my age, my parents "discourage" it.But this girl is absolutely amazing. I have no intentions of sex with her...I really just want a relationship.should i?

2006-10-08 17:56:43 · 11 answers · asked by jimbob44007 2 in Singles & Dating

she s a person who is shy and quiet .. and i need to take it out from her which i dnt know how .. i trid so many things but NO.. she has a problem which is her parents have bought her a propsal to get married now i dnt know whether she ll get married next year before that i need to express my feelings .. and i have done that before never worked i need her so much and i miss her too .. how can i explain my love to her .. + i know that she likes me and she feels sorry for me that i cant be with her for ever help me ...

2006-10-08 17:56:02 · 5 answers · asked by Tariq J 1 in Singles & Dating

Our seven year anniversary is January 11th.

2006-10-08 17:55:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been dating this guy for a while, and I am at the point where I am gettign ready to put it on the line by saying either tell me where this is going or I am out. It's not to pressure him but it's to take the streess of not knowing off of me. I love him. I am in love with him, and he does a lot of things to show me, but if someone came up to me right now and said do you have a boyfriend I would not really be able to say yes. We do a lot of things together, and he always like to take me into consideration when it comes to doing things, but I am unsure if he is not ready, if he is holding back because he has been hurt, or because I have never said anything before this time. Is there any advice on what I can say to him other then putting my feelings out there and hoping I get the response I am looking for.

2006-10-08 17:55:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl and I went to the same elementary school and high school without knowing each other existed. After high school, we got to know each other; i told her i liked her. She's really shy & considerate. We started university in different cities. During 1st year, we called each other & exchanged gifts. It was noticiable that we spent alot of $ on long distance calling & she feared that she was affecting my studies. I feared that I was disturbing her. She stopped talking to me. I would reach her answering machine whenever i call her, she never replies to my emails, she blocks me on IM, we don't see each other anymore. This has been ongoing for ~3 years. I relocated to work in her city for a year to look for her. I saw her 2-3 times during the year & she would still show me her brightest smile. I still think she's the best & she knows it. I'm back home studying. I graduate in 2 years as an engineer. I'm 21, want her as a wife. I'm saving up for a diamond ring. Am I crazy? Will she care?

2006-10-08 17:53:59 · 4 answers · asked by GlidingSquirrel 2 in Friends

im going to buy my first ever latin porn movie but i dont know any. give ma 2 titels and why are they good

2006-10-08 17:53:33 · 4 answers · asked by brandonbamboo 2 in Singles & Dating

(And I've neither, thank you very much)

2006-10-08 17:53:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have liked this guy for a year. Best friend had one night stand with him. They still talk on phone a lot but she has told me that she has no romantic feelings for him. a group of us were all drunk the other night and playing a peck on the lips kissing game. When he kissed me my breath was taken away. We ended up kissing more later. My friend is mad and says she didnt have any romantic feelings for him but they talk every other night for hours and they were friends and she was hoping it would turn into something more. In a year, she has never said that to me and we are best freinds. If he was after her why did he do that to her or me? Is he a player? Is she a liar? or am i just a dumbass?

2006-10-08 17:52:45 · 10 answers · asked by justme 2 in Singles & Dating

'm a guy. Shes been my friend for 4 years. I'm 16, shes 17. When i got back to school she was different. She was resting her arm on my knee, hugged me once, and stole my hat all the time. Then all the big stuff stopped for a while. But still tries to sit next to me, bumps right into m sometimes in the hallway. Writes on my arm and i think she touches my hand. Turns out her perfect guy desription fits me perfectly.A problem is she touches other guys too. Well she wrestled with one them once. She hits them like me. But it just seems like i get more attention from her. but she claims to do it to everyone. But the big problem is shes bi. One girl leans on her and sh*it. But thats nothing really. Yesterday, all of us are hanging out. We seperate for our reasons. But somehow it was just us walking to a resturant. The walk there shes quiet doesnt say anything. Then we get there its a little shaky at first but we just talk for an hour about normal stuff. We start walking to another resturant. I tell a great joke, so she put her arm around me and tells me im awesome. Then she suggests getting another one of our friends Kelly. But she says it like everyone to go ahead but me and her would go and pick up Kelly. She goes and gets Kelly. Both of them show up at the resturant. It's just us three. Turns out the girl im worried about now and kelly are having a bad unofficial relationship. I'm just there quiet while they talk about their problems. Afterward she hugging her, talking to her, being with her as much as she can. We are talking but it seems like she would rather be with kelly. But kelly doesnt totally want anything to do with her. So what i want to know is whats going on with my friend. Does she like me and what do i do about it.

2006-10-08 17:52:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-08 17:51:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you like the female-body builders at all? Do any of you find a muscular woman sexy?

2006-10-08 17:51:27 · 15 answers · asked by Stephanie S 6 in Singles & Dating

you change for love or let the love change u and why?

2006-10-08 17:51:01 · 5 answers · asked by ok 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do guys really like sweet innocent girls

2006-10-08 17:50:49 · 15 answers · asked by green_eyed_sexy_bi*** 1 in Friends

My husband is a very bad tempered person and swears alot. Whenever he's angry he will say all the bad words,sometimes even calling me names and it bothers me a lot!! I was raised in a very well mannered way. We never utter ONE bad word at home and it's like a taboo to my family. My dad will just slap us for any abusive words. Now I have a baby and he's 8 months old. I would like to raise my child the way I was been brought up. No swear word! But the problem is my husband keep on using those words even in front of my baby. I keep on telling him don't mention that kind of word in front of the baby but he just ignoring it and still doing it. I get very upset with his behaviour. His tantrum really making me crazy. I'm just afraid that my baby will pick up that behaviour from him and I really don't want that to happen. What do i do?

Thanks for your views.....

2006-10-08 17:49:14 · 24 answers · asked by betty boo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and I were at a dance club and this guy came over and took us to the dance floor..I then danced with him and wrote his number on my hand as we were dancing he kissed me on the lips, gave me a tight hug and then said to call him...does that mean he's interested? Some people said that when a guy gives his number to a girl he's either not interested or he's drunk..I really don't know..

2006-10-08 17:48:10 · 21 answers · asked by Adgirlie 1 in Singles & Dating

Im my opinion most women like taller guys so it is harder for me to approach women that are the same height or even shorter then i am. Is there n e specific way i can overcome this because everything ive tried has not worked thus far...

2006-10-08 17:47:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You and your boy friend haved loved each other and have a very mature and healthy relationship since high school.

He wants to marry you, would you accept? He is only one year older than you..do you think somone older would be better?

2006-10-08 17:47:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i never really know what to do. i mean, i don't want to go so far as to make the guy think i don't want to be near him, or that i don't like him. i just need a few pointers. thanks for the help!

2006-10-08 17:47:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she's in some of my classes, and i don't know if she likes me or not what shoul i do

2006-10-08 17:47:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let me give you a little background first. My finacee and I have been together for 8 years now. We started dating in high school. We have a 4 1/2 year old son together and we are getting ready to buy house. And we are getting married. We are in a disagreement about a wedding plan I wanted to know what everyone thought. I really want to have my dad walk me down the aisle. But I also thought I should have my son go down on the other side of me. If my dad is going to give me away I think my son should also have the chance to do the same. He could say I do after my dad or say nothing at all. Then have a ringbearer because my flower girls are twins. But he wants our son to be the ringbearer because he doesn't think walking me down the aisle is incorporating him into the wedding enough. Any ideas?

2006-10-08 17:46:35 · 24 answers · asked by Kellen's Mom 2 in Weddings

I'm 17 and bisexual (I live in Narnia... if you know what I mean) . This straight guy who I work with wants to know if I like somebody (I like one of our co-workers who is a guy). This guy is a really sweet and nice friend and I don't want to ruin our friendship by telling him that I'm bi. He keeps bugging me at work and I warned him that he might hate me if I tell him who I like. I'm afraid that he might be one of those homophobic straight guys but I don't want to lie to him, because so far he's been nothing but nice to me and I want him to know all about me.
Can you please give me some advice? And please, SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY.

2006-10-08 17:46:22 · 10 answers · asked by Gomenasai 1 in Friends

I think this took place outdoors. My boyfriend was laying down on a bed with wheels. I was sitting on the floor and I reached over (with a knife, I believe) and cut the middle section of his penis off. I didn't seem to be angry or seeking revenge or anything. I did it in a playful manner. I think I was teasing him because I hid the middle section of his penis under the bed. Then I accidently moved the bed and the penis got all smashed, really smashed..I freaked out and thought 'oh my gosh, what did I do??' My boyfriend stayed calm and said that it was ok and that he still had some feeling in what was left of his penis. I think the two parts of his penis that were left fused together somehow.
Can someone please help me interpret this dream? I've been trying to figure it out what it means. Thanks!

2006-10-08 17:45:59 · 17 answers · asked by xxxcerealfordinnerxxx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

people should not be labled by what they where and how they act.
we should not have to be pushed aside because we dont fit in with the group. we should be able to hang out with who ever we want.

2006-10-08 17:45:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really mean it. How come it is always brides and grooms featured with the brides $40K dress and $1000 shoes. 90% of brides can't afford that kind of get up. Why don't they get realistic married couples with simplicity?

2006-10-08 17:45:48 · 15 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Weddings

2006-10-08 17:44:56 · 8 answers · asked by Hunter D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 17:44:21 · 7 answers · asked by michellinie 2 in Friends

okay so.. i just got reunited again with a guy i used to have a huge crush on about 2 years ago. and how the way he acts is like he is interested in me. and I love his personality and i spend alot of time talking to him. We talk about everything. And he can always make me laugh and feel better. However, he has lost his looks.. he isnt cute anymore but i do not notice that really when i am talking to him. but my friends point that out and i feel like its very imature if i hold that against him. The other thing is that even though he has a lot of money i dont see him with a good job in the future. Should i just not care about all of this and give him a chance? or should i just keep him as friends and see what happens in the future?
By the way he is 25 and im 18 so there is also the huge age difference...

2006-10-08 17:43:27 · 6 answers · asked by PeaceandLove 1 in Friends

6 years ago i met a girl whom i was physically attracted to immediately. At that time i was already into a steady relationship with my partner of 10 years. The 1st 6 months of the relationship with this girl was purely physical though we both at that time did talk about our feelings for each other, we just never acted on it except with sex. As time went by, we continued to be friends and keep intouch every couple of months for coffee or a movie but without the sex. Late last year, we got involved in a business project together and started to see more of each other. we now see each other once a week despite our business project has been completed. We still dont have sex but somehow have this strong emotional bond together. Being two highly egoistic people we dont confess our emotions but also because of the different circumstances we tend not to say anything about our emotions. Meanwhile my relationship with my partner is going nowhere. what should i do.

2006-10-08 17:42:59 · 4 answers · asked by ark inc 1 in Singles & Dating

First I tell u that I am from a family from area with culture of arranged marriages
Now,
There is a girl I love...
I asked her If she will marry me.
At that time she said she dosent think of me that way....
(may be she was not Interested)
I know she dosent love any other person...
It was about 1 year ago ...
I happen to go to her house usually but we never spoke next time about it....
Now It is that some other family has shown interest in her for marrying to their son..
I am worried...
If she gets married to him I will loose controll..
I really love her very much..
I talked to my mom now that I want to marry her.....& she said it is quit possible....
What can I do more....
Please help me....

2006-10-08 17:42:53 · 7 answers · asked by just curious 4 in Singles & Dating