okay so.. i just got reunited again with a guy i used to have a huge crush on about 2 years ago. and how the way he acts is like he is interested in me. and I love his personality and i spend alot of time talking to him. We talk about everything. And he can always make me laugh and feel better. However, he has lost his looks.. he isnt cute anymore but i do not notice that really when i am talking to him. but my friends point that out and i feel like its very imature if i hold that against him. The other thing is that even though he has a lot of money i dont see him with a good job in the future. Should i just not care about all of this and give him a chance? or should i just keep him as friends and see what happens in the future?
By the way he is 25 and im 18 so there is also the huge age difference...
2006-10-08 17:43:27 · 6 answers · asked by PeaceandLove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sometimes relationships can be tough, especially yours from the sounds of it...but your situation (like anyone elses) is unique, so look at every angle of your problem. first off, where do you see your life going in the near (and distant) future? you already said your thoughts on his, do you think you could encourage him to be everything he could be? what people need, you and him, is to have someone there to encourage and inspire each other. if you're in it just because you think he's a nice guy, then I wouldn't let it get to serious, because just being nice doesn't promise a fruitful (for lack of a better word) future...if you're serious, and if you know you will be commited, don't let your seemingly discouraging (although they're probably just picking on you) friends stop you...go with your instinct.
2006-10-08 17:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Hunter D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money and looks shouldnt matter when it comes to love, they come and go, If you really like him then you should take your chances just take it easy and dont rush into anything too fast. seven years isnt that much of an age diference, I know couples that are ten to thirteen years apart from each other and they are happily married and have been for years, its not the age difference that matter but the maturity of the two people.
2006-10-09 00:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by h2gj87 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT go for him!! he has lost his looks,u dont see him with a good job in the future, his old, and the list goes on... ure 18!!! theres thousands of CUTE guys out there!! it doesnt matter if he makes u laugh or w/e, theres a lot of other guys out there that can make u laugh.its not like his the only guy in this world that can make u laugh!! trust me, move on. or u can be friends with him. thats just it. no bigger that that. stay as friends only.remember that.
2006-10-09 01:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by dolly parker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think you should just give him and chance, he seems really nice, and caring. Like they say dont jugde a book by its cover, also age is just a number... And i think you both would make a great couple just give him a chance and if it doent work just stay freinds.
2006-10-09 00:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first rule of dateing is you have to be realy attracted to the guy. second is you both have to be going somewhere with your lives third is communication. why is it third because you could pick any bum off the streets who will have a awsome conversation with you. so thats third. forth i dont think im aloud to say it but you get the drift
2006-10-09 00:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by brandonbamboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the poor dude a chance, it may be his las one
2006-10-09 00:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋