Im my opinion most women like taller guys so it is harder for me to approach women that are the same height or even shorter then i am. Is there n e specific way i can overcome this because everything ive tried has not worked thus far...
2006-10-08 17:47:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of I'm sorry. I know it sucks and I can't say I'm perfect because Ive turned down good guys because of their height(along with other things)
I have seen many guys that are short have attitude, they are too aggressive because they have to be around other guys growing up..I Hate that. I'm not saying be a sissy..but be confident. Be strong but sweet.
To tell you the truth, once you stop looking for the right one..they seem to come along. good luck
2006-10-08 18:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Laurel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay confident, never let them see that you have any problem with your height! I like men that are taller than me but I did date a guy for a while who was the exact same height as me(I'm 5'3) It didn't last because he was a little too confident and started taking my spotlight(sounds selfish but it was more of a struggle than fun) Anyway, I think men with confidence and a way of showing it without even saying much are the most attractive, I need someone to stand next to me not behind or in front of me if you get my drift!!! I bet you have a great personality and all you need to do is get out there and get in the mix!! Confident men are always the most attractive, keep that in mind!
2006-10-08 17:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, some women do care. If they do then they're not worth wasting your time on them. My son is 22 and maybe a little taller than you and he can't keep his phone from blowing up. Women have never been a problem for him. Take the bull by the horns from your inner self. Women want to see confidence, a little bad boy and some aggression. Just remember you have to throw in the kind heart at the right time. Don't chase them. We like a challenge. You'll do fine - smile at one that interests you and when you see a response then go for the conversation.
Hold your head high!!!!
********hey AVATAR - you're a jerk w/no class**********
2006-10-08 18:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by CA Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 11:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to overcome this is intelligence, i.e.,your intellectual powers, that will give u a magnetic personality. Be reserved, and don't show your interest of being accepted and don't approach anybody, let them rush to you.
There r plenty of examples where short height pple have wonderfully happy long lasting & tall marriages.
2006-10-08 17:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not all about height.
Carry yourself confidently, put the time into other aspects of your appearance. And most importantly, act like your height does not bother you and have the personality that will make up for it all!
You're not short to me! You've got 6 inches on me! ha. If that makes you feel better!
2006-10-08 18:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Rx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See: Danny DeVito and Joe Pesci.
When you're watching them in a movie, are you thinking, "man, those guys are really short"? No. Because they have big personalities.
Yes, women like tall men. But you need a hook, so develop one. Watch the movie "Hitch". Men are always so suprised that women just want guys to be normal and/or goofy like they are.
2006-10-08 17:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone won't date you because of your ht - they have issues- maybe they are thinking what others will think- they are not confident enough about themself- be yourself and be your best self- hold your head up and go for it. D
2006-10-08 17:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't approach them Be mysterious and they will come to you. I have a friend that is short also and he seems t get them all.(except for me)
2006-10-08 17:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by tamara s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Approach midgets and join the circus, you freak.
2006-10-08 17:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Avatar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋