I have liked this guy for a year. Best friend had one night stand with him. They still talk on phone a lot but she has told me that she has no romantic feelings for him. a group of us were all drunk the other night and playing a peck on the lips kissing game. When he kissed me my breath was taken away. We ended up kissing more later. My friend is mad and says she didnt have any romantic feelings for him but they talk every other night for hours and they were friends and she was hoping it would turn into something more. In a year, she has never said that to me and we are best freinds. If he was after her why did he do that to her or me? Is he a player? Is she a liar? or am i just a dumbass?
2006-10-08 17:52:45 · 10 answers · asked by justme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One night stand means just that, no commitment. If your friend
was serious about this guy, she would have made an attempt to create a bond with this fellow you speak of. Your friend had her chance and didn't take advantage of it. You shouldn't feel guilty if this guy falls for you over her. Since you were all drunk at the time, what goes down when all of you are drunk shouldn't be taken seriously. If he wanted it to be something more, then he would have done something by now. I think your friend needs to grow up, and realize that her male friend is nothing more than just that. I don't think he was after her. I don't know if he's a player or not, because there isn't enough information to tell judging from what you have said. She might be a liar, but I don't think you're
a dumbass. She is masking her true feelings for him, or why the jealousy bit when he kisses you? If she doesn't care about him in
a romantic way, why should she care who her male friend kisses
and for how long?
2006-10-08 18:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by Answerer17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's being a dumbass. If the relationship was going to develop, it would have back when they had sex or sometime before now. She should have been honest with you about having feelings for him in the beginning. That being said, you need to decide if this guy is worth losing your best friend over. I hope she wakes up to the fact that he isn't going to fall in love with her now but wishful thinking dies hard.
2006-10-09 00:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was a one night stand then more then likely that's all its going to stay.if she had feelings for him she should of went after him butt shes waited a year and hasn't done anything about it.so i say go for it just be careful in case he is a player try to have his cake and eat it to.
2006-10-09 01:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by nu4you2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your friend really did have feelings for him all along, but just didnt admit it. if you really want this guy, then i would say go for it, but be careful just in case he is player. But if you do go for him, even though she didnt say she had feelings for him so its her fault, you may still lose your friend, so just be aware of what is at stake when you do this.
2006-10-09 00:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a player! found someone to play or the best one to make her jealous!
2006-10-09 01:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by kay w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha. umm your friend sounds like a loser. she said she didn't have feelings for him, so if you want him, GO FOR HIM. don't let her make your decisions. if she wanted her relationship to turn into something more than friends, she would have said so.
2006-10-09 00:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONG. A MAN WILL COME AND
GO. BUT FRIENDS WILL BE THERE. SHE MAY STILL HAVE
FEELING FOR HIM AND IF HE TALKING TO HER THEN WHY
IS HE PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU. HE PLAYER AND THAT
NOT GOOD FOR ANY ONE. MOVE ON GIRLFRIEND.
2006-10-09 00:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
satisfy yourself, but you are playing a dangerous game when you start dating your friends exs. they always get jealous
2006-10-09 01:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it
2006-10-09 00:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋