First I tell u that I am from a family from area with culture of arranged marriages
Now,
There is a girl I love...
I asked her If she will marry me.
At that time she said she dosent think of me that way....
(may be she was not Interested)
I know she dosent love any other person...
It was about 1 year ago ...
I happen to go to her house usually but we never spoke next time about it....
Now It is that some other family has shown interest in her for marrying to their son..
I am worried...
If she gets married to him I will loose controll..
I really love her very much..
I talked to my mom now that I want to marry her.....& she said it is quit possible....
What can I do more....
Please help me....
2006-10-08 17:42:53 · 7 answers · asked by just curious 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We dont have dating culture here & neither the romancing before marriages....
I am not a controlling person..
It is just I love her & wanna make her mine for life...
I have been living with her from my childhood..
I just wanna make her mine.
Trully...
2006-10-09 17:00:36 · update #1
Leave her alone. She has already told you how she felt. You should lose control. You sound like a controlling person to me. I would hate to be in her situation.
2006-10-08 17:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She told you no. You need to move on. You dont own her (you cant own another human) just becuase you once asked her to marry you. Just because you come from a culture with arranged marriages doesnt mean that you should assume that every woman will just put up with that. Try finding a woman to romance and date, earn your way to her heart, dont control her and act like you own her.
2006-10-09 00:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sir, it's called unrequited love. I'm telling you, marriage is a HUGE thing. Although YOU may want to spend the rest of your life with her, she cleary does not desire it with you. Dont marry someone who does not crave to marry you. For one, you will be the only one she will be having sex with and you dont want her to feel like it was forced on her. Second, marriage is a union. It is not something that one person can arrange. Think of the situation from her point of view. I am a woman and it scares me to think that I could be forced to marry someone I did not love.
I've often hear a saying that every person has more that one true love. Keep on looking. I'm assuming you are Muslim.....there are millions of friendly, beautiful, smart Muslim girls out in the world. You just have to find them.
2006-10-10 01:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by hotpockets122000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said that your culture doesnt permit romance before marriage, may be she didnt want to do anything against that. Ask your family to send proposal and see. Thats the best you can do. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-14 07:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lose control , sure, you should, because I also hate guys like controlling like u. These children don't know love, they only want something, and that thing should belong to them, even they let it down. Until s.o comes to take their thing, they're getting mad and questioning this stupid question.
2006-10-09 00:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by candle l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your family to talk with her family.
2006-10-09 00:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your mom to approach her parents, that's all.
2006-10-09 00:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋