If everything in a relationship seems to be going very well, why would the guy start to pull away and what can the girl do to stop him from doing this?
2006-10-08 16:40:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We haven't slept together yet and I know he's not seeing anyone else. Honestly, I think he's scared because he's been hurt before.
2006-10-08 16:46:24 · update #1
i am going through the EXACT same situation RIGHT NOW! I really don't know what to do either. Does it seem like he doesn't give a **** anymore? Cuz if so, act the same, give it reverse psychology and make it seem like you don't care. I'm in the process of doing that and so far it's working. Good luck hun
2006-10-08 16:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. I would have to say the key word in your question is "seems" to be going well. I had this happen to me with a woman friend, seems I said something she didn't like, and really never forgot it...it bothered her....SO your guy might have something that has been said or done, that might bother him...What i would do is ask him if there is something the matter...be upfront and open the communication door...ya never will know if you don't ask. Or it could be, he is a person that just is shy or it might depend where your at when he is pulling away...He might feel uncomfortable with your affection at the time your decide to show him some....either way, might be time to actually ask him about it...only he knows, and then you ll know if things are what they seem.
2006-10-08 16:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by zeakster01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's starting to pull away, the last thing you want to do is try to stop it. That will just make him run for the hills. You need to have the attitude that you only want to be with someone who wants to be with you...and if he's not the one who wants to be with you, then you're going to find someone who is. I don't mean be nasty to him, or anything like that. Be friendly, but start to make more plans to go out with your friends, and do things without him. You'll be much more desirable to him if you don't seem desperate. Don't call him, let him call you. If it goes two weeks and he hasn't called you--then consider it case closed. Move on.
2006-10-08 16:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men need a little space. Have you been too clingy? Give him some room and see if he doesn't move closer? Some men also like to be the pursuer instead of the pursuee. I don't suggest playing games, but once again, you may need to back off a little.
2006-10-08 16:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does NOT wanna be in this relationship! He must be getting pressure or just not feeling good about things anymore!
There is NOTHING you can do! You can't make a person love you-so give a little space and see what happens!
2006-10-08 16:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about your concerns and he fails to respond then its up to you to make the call of letting him go or try to stick it out to see if its you he really wants because by choosing to stick it out your giving him the choice to decide if he wants to stay with you are pursue other women....he may also have met someone else and hes trying to feel out if he wants to "try" with her or stay with you but if it were me i would definitely ask cuz a closed mouth doesn't get feed.
2006-10-08 16:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by annv06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pulling away skill faraway from YOU. basically look on the 2d word that's away...and that would favor to assist. So, if it develop into pusing in the route of; you look on the 2d word that's in the route of and also you may want to understand that's in the route of you. wish i helped =D
2016-10-16 04:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because he is afraid of commitment show him that you are not going to hurt him and that it is a relationship it is not like your getting married or anything.
2006-10-08 16:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be pulling away because it isn't what he wants. There isn't much the girl CAN do, it is HIS life she doesn't own him.
2006-10-08 16:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing maybe things where not the same for him, or he done something wrong and cant tell you but it still takes away from the relationship.
2006-10-08 16:46:17 · answer #10 · answered by stcgoodman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋