he seems want to know me better after i'd introduced myself.. actually we know each other,but not so close,,just fren in the same college..in fact he called me almost 10times but i didnt answer him at all coz i'm so afraid+nervous+shy to talk to him.. is dat good to do like dat to him?? give me some responds plz..
2006-10-08 16:47:18 · 17 answers · asked by dyana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
answer the phone for godssakes! i personally enjoy a woman that makes the first move,it shows me there confident. you should call him right now and ask him out
2006-10-08 16:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by seth s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he called you 10 times and you didn't answer because you're afraid nervous and shy....what makes you think you could make the first move? Come on get with the program..
2006-10-08 23:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sandi B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT ignore him talk to the guy once you start to talk only then you will know if this is a guy you truely are intrested in and then you guys can both get to know eachother and maybe something good can come out of this one will never know unless you try ...just remember if things do go good and you guys become more then friends ALWAYS ALWAYS use protection!!!
2006-10-08 23:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by annv06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to go out with him and he is too shy you make a move, you have two choices: (1) take the initiative, risking rejection; or (2) do nothing and not get what you want.
2006-10-08 23:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no more games. when he calls pick up the phone and just be yourself. if your shy be shy. but be nice. intiate getting to know him and give him oppertunities to ask you out. Like tell him that your bummed cause you have no plans for this friday. Ask what his favorite restaurant is. if you havent been there. then say id love to try it out some time. he should get the point.
2006-10-08 23:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by Armond B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this coming from a guys point of view. Sometimes we need the extra push so that we know what we can and cannot do in a relationship. If you want us to move in and do something then let him know we can do it.
2006-10-08 23:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mark D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with making the first move, but keep it sutdle. flirt with him, so he gets the idea that you like him. and then hopefully he will ask you out. but you are gonna have to answer the phone! otherwise he will think you arent interested and give up.
2006-10-08 23:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like him then u should just tell him.........whats the worst that could happen......if he doesn't then at least you will know. what happens if u never asked him or anything about how u feel then you will have never known. but i suggest tell him how you feel he might feel the same way.i hope this helps u on your decision
2006-10-08 23:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy approaches you or makes a move, acknowledge it. Just don't make the first move.
2006-10-08 23:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of curse not it is acturly beter 4 the girl to nmake the 1 move it makes us girls look stronger!!!
2006-10-08 23:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sierra k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋