I hated her the entire marriage. I got to know her after the break up and found out she was a great person. I maybe spoke to her a total of 5 hours in 13 years.
2006-10-08 16:45:39 · 15 answers · asked by jpb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not wrong...u were in a different situation and alot of ppl don't like their in laws until a break up sometimes they r the sympathy u need to console u..but it goes to show u never judge a book by it's cover..u gotta read it to know what it's about..lol..Good Luck!!!
2006-10-08 16:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i imagine there are some seperate topics right here. initially, whats the reason she needs to get married? How lengthy has she been with her significant different? Is it a shot-gun wedding ceremony? Secondly, is the money and length of wedding ceremony. i imagine that that's really selfish to insist that any relations pays for an extravagant wedding ceremony in the present economic climate. If she's getting married for the right causes, the marriage itself is irrelevant. Its the sanctity, reward, duty of the act thats major. no matter if her marriage is a fulfillment or no longer can don't have any further some thing to do with the size of the shape. I dont understand how a lot a wedding ceremony like that is going to value. My guess is a few thing in extra of $15,000 all in? my own wedding ceremony value use lower than $1500 funds and it develop into as particular as the different i have been to. you're in an exceedingly confusing concern and that i do not envy you. Its a no-win concern. My base line suggestion - refuse to pay out. Then she'll be confronted with finding out no matter if she truly needs to marry, or in simple terms have a large party. best of luck.
2016-12-04 10:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by mundell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like some of the other people said you didn't give a lot of info.
But if the situation was that you were married to her sister and then the two of you divorced... Well it would be a little awkward at any family occasions. Other then that if the two of you can deal with it then that's your deal.
Now that i read the original question it seems she was married to your brother. If that were the case i would say as long as he is fine with it and more or less the second half or my last scenario.
2006-10-08 16:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Bob Freakin Barker 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not ok, but it is ok at the same time. I mean, you have the right ot move on and try to be happy. If you feel she is the one and SHE FEELS THE SAME, then go for it. If she doesn't, then maybe you can be her friend, but not boyfriend or more. Talk to her and see what she says, how she feels. Just take into consideration that the other person involved might not give you a thumbs up. Feelings will be hurt regardless the ending of this story...
2006-10-08 16:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I assume she was married to your brother. I would say it is a bad idea in that case. It would cause too many bad feelings between you and your brother, and probably between you and the rest of your family. You should consider that before going into this...family issues are hardly ever worth it!
2006-10-08 16:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by Esma 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, people change, situations change, whatever!!! And maybe, you didn't take the time before to see the person that she was!!! Good Luck.
2006-10-08 16:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you maybe hate her because you were jealous that she wasn't married to you? If it isn't going to cause major flack in the family, I would say go for it.
2006-10-08 16:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong, hey, you might even end up having a better relationship then you did with your ex.
BUT...the relationship between your ex and your sis in law might never be the same.
2006-10-08 16:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is wrong... if it is our bro's ex wife he would hate you and you could not attend family functions.... If it is your ex wife's sister.. they would become enemies and you could not attend her side family functions. Just find someone not in the fam.
2006-10-08 16:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL YEAH THAT IS WRONG!!!!! U MUST HAVE BEEN ATTRACTED TO HER. ALOT OF TIMES WHEN YOU HATE SOMEONE..ITS A FRONT BECAUSE YOU REALLY LIKE THEM. JUST LEAVE IT ALONE BECAUSE NO MATTER WHAT....YOUR BROTHER WAS MARRIED TO HER. MAYBE THATS WHY THEY ARE NO LONGER TOGETHER...SHE MIGHT BE ONE THAT FOOLS AROUND....LIKE U!!!!
2006-10-08 17:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by TANNER GIRL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋