Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

Or does a competent and concerned advocate sometimes help?

2006-10-05 03:00:14 · 10 answers · asked by bryzxsyw 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You come home from working all day, and want your wife/girlfriend to give you a bl**job, and she says "Take a shower first, then I will!" What would you do or say? Just curious.

2006-10-05 02:59:52 · 21 answers · asked by me 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 02:59:27 · 32 answers · asked by chic_a_cherry_cola 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been talking for a little over a month, then he asked me out, n its been like 3 to 4 days of us being bf/gf plus talking for over a month and he told me he loved me today to my face? do you think he means it or is just saying it? because it has only been about a month in a half of us being together can u fall in love that quick?

2006-10-05 02:59:22 · 17 answers · asked by megan c 1 in Singles & Dating

I even considering not marring her if she does not shape up. My God. She is suppose to serve me until death do us part. Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's what the Good Book says. Can anyone help me with a few tips on how to make my bride to be conform and be a good wife.

2006-10-05 02:58:55 · 27 answers · asked by elouise54321 1 in Weddings

i fall in love with one girl. i wanted to tell her but i shy.. what can i do??
can anyone plz tell me?

2006-10-05 02:58:07 · 14 answers · asked by lonely 1 in Singles & Dating

> Do you miss me? - YES But making the most of the time apart to think about things
> Do you love me? - YES, you have been very loving and kind to me and i feel so special when i am with you
> Will you get hurt if break up with me? YES
> Do you still want to break up with me? Cannot say yes or no, i seriously need time to consider.

We had an argument before he left for Thailand. I am so afraid he will find another boy during his holiday. he promised me before that he wouldn't hurt or upset me. I am a beautiful and happy-go-lucky young man too.

He is on gaydar almost everyday but I hardly hear a shout from him. the worst thing is he has changed his status on gaydar from having a partner to a single man.

Please advise me what to do... I really love him

2006-10-05 02:57:17 · 38 answers · asked by Riv 1 in Singles & Dating

we were friends.it is in a way one sided feelings.but i feel special when i am with him.i had proposed to him few years ago and he refused.he doesnt want to break the freindship although.the reason i am facing this problem is because he is the man who used to love my sis before her marriage.that was also a one sisded love.now i dont know why i am still am optimistic.am i befooling myself.what shall i do

2006-10-05 02:56:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy while I was in Israel this past summer and we have been going out for a little over a month over the phone/internet etc... (we plan to see each other every few months, hes coming to visit me later in the year etc...)recently, he went away for vacation for a week and didnt tell me he was going (he apologized profusely and promised that he just forgot to tell me) then he was back for a week in which we only spoke like once for around 5 minutes and then he left the country again for a week (this time he told me about it). but he has been acting really strange lately, normally he sends me emails all the time and we speak for hours online each day but recently it seems almost like he is trying to avoid me. he used to send me whole emails about how much he loved me and now he has suddenly stopped. any advice?

2006-10-05 02:56:35 · 10 answers · asked by לבי במזרח... 2 in Singles & Dating

I was out with my friends last night and we were talking about this exact thing.It got pritty heatedwith some of us being for and the others against, How do you all feel? Also We were talking about the double standard. It seems to be ok for girls to go to the strippers but not guys whys is that?

2006-10-05 02:56:33 · 8 answers · asked by blue_eyed_brat78 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Yah know what i'm talking about!

2006-10-05 02:55:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I must give a presentation about the family problem in my school. Please help me because i don't have so much time!

2006-10-05 02:55:09 · 10 answers · asked by MetZ 2 in Family

2006-10-05 02:55:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Recently lost my mum to Cancer, life feels like it has stopped and cant make it better, does anyone know the best way to get on who has experienced this. Mum was my best friend and very young.

2006-10-05 02:54:29 · 5 answers · asked by rehad 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf and I went to a nightclub with some friends, and there he kept staring at the half naked girls dancing on the stage. He behaved like I didn't exist in there. I got really mad and we had a big fight. The next day he said he wanted to break up. I felt terrible and cried a lot, cause I couldn't stop blaming myself for criticizing him that day.
We work in the same place, so we see each other every day. We don't talk to each other anymore. (There have been 2 weeks now). Yesterday he sent me a text telling me that he can't stop thinking about me, that he feels terrible and that he wants us to get back together. I said I wasn't sure anymore, but he asked me to meet him and talk about this.
We met, but I'm not sure if I should get back to him.
He is so reserved. I find it hard to understand what goes on in his mind. He looks distant sometimes.
What should I do? Should I get back to him? I suffered a lot when we broke up, but...I don't know if it's good for me to get back to him

2006-10-05 02:53:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It has been about a month now of No Contact and I have to say that while some days it isn’t easy, it really is the best way to go and apart from the odd bad day when I miss her immensely, I am getting over it more and more and beginning to enjoy my new found independence. Obviously I miss the companionship and having someone to take care of (bit gay for a guy to be saying that I know, but that’s the way I am) but I am also finding myself again and becoming stronger again in who I am after sacrificing so much.The worst part about the whole thing, and this is what I would like a reply to, is the feeling of having been used.

Has anyone else felt this?

I have come out of the relationship after having giving it my all feeling as if I was used for my generosity and good nature.

I wanted to make the relationship work and asked her numerous times if she was happy and she could talk to me if she wasn’t and I wouldn’t judge her, but was consistently lied to and then dumped.

2006-10-05 02:53:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Think at ur end and then tell me coz I am really hungry.

2006-10-05 02:53:02 · 6 answers · asked by Frank 3 in Friends

I find women with the liverpudlian accent a big turn on - yet geordie women are a bit of a turn off. Having Said That - Im a Brummie - you cant get worse lol

2006-10-05 02:52:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 29 years old and married for 1 year now, and very happy, but befor my husband I sleept with 33 other man, I traveld a lot and meet so many nice man, of course i allways used prodection, I had fun and it was OK for me to do that, but one of my girlfriend told me, that is to much. Sorry but my English is not that good.

2006-10-05 02:52:13 · 24 answers · asked by mungi 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 02:51:59 · 10 answers · asked by coolbabygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 02:51:34 · 37 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

women I have ever dated...in that she is sexy, fun, educated all at the same time...problem is that everyone says that women who dress like her...tight jeans...etc...and have tattoos like her (on her shoulder...I think it is cute), and smoke cigarettes (she is a smoker) are trash..sluts, easy etc...I really like her, so what should I do...I like all of this and more including the fact she is fun and highly educated.

2006-10-05 02:51:13 · 6 answers · asked by darrin_8734 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were talking about this last night, If you don't have children then pick out a memory from your childhood.
Just trying to see if my worst experence as a mom compair to yours. Be honest.

2006-10-05 02:49:26 · 9 answers · asked by olschoolmom 7 in Family

My friend and I really like each other and have talked about a relationship, but not taken the step yet. He says he is afraid of what would happen if it doesn't work out. Kissed first time last week and twice since, how do I know if he is interested in a relationship or happy with the occasional kissing or cuddling. I'm not talking about sex. That would definately ruin a friendship if it's not going to be a relationship.

2006-10-05 02:49:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 02:48:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The archetype of the high performance superman who is naive enough to get sucked into all sorts of trouble , but has the coping skills to deal with that trouble is that sexy for a woman ?

You know the whole ultimate boyscout kinda thing

2006-10-05 02:48:56 · 1 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not cheating on him but he thinks i am, he doesnt believe in being just friends with a man now what if someone calls n if he trys to be very inquisitive he gets insulted i know some of my guy friend who would do that. Im almost closing down n heading home should i expect the worst? im very scared coz he gets so mad

I think i should just give up on my marriege coz i dont even have a baby with him, he's just too much this is mental toture.

2006-10-05 02:47:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hate being tickled, how do I make my husband understand this? I'm really not comfortable being touched other than just a hug, I've been working on making myself endure other "marital" touching (I don't like that either, it's very unpleasant/uncomfortable, but force myself to do it to keep him happy), but when he tickles me it just ruins my ability to trust that my body is safe with him at all. I was misused as a child, and he knows this. I've told him before that I don't like being tickled. I thought he understood, but I guess he doesn't.

I love him madly, and I know he loves me, but it's getting to the point where I almost don't want him to touch me at all, because it's so miserable!

How do I deal with this?

2006-10-05 02:47:03 · 31 answers · asked by mmw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Remember that jealousy plays a factor here. One gets the attention and the two others don't so they just grab her and tell her let's go to the other side of the club and make sure to brainwash her that this guy is a creep or Mr. Wrong ?

2006-10-05 02:46:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 02:46:47 · 11 answers · asked by coolbabygirl 1 in Singles & Dating