2006-10-05 02:59:27 · 32 answers · asked by chic_a_cherry_cola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then all of a sudden he would make a phone call and say hello, how are you honey, i miss you..
2006-10-05 03:05:28 · update #1
Because maybe they were shy and can't show there face right away cause he think you going to talk about last night and so he just wait a few days that it get old. Just put it like this he is a little shy when it comes down to that part.
2006-10-05 03:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by Alayshia 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Because during the night there is an emotional factor there you can't deny.
Most of the times men want just...fun. But that is not true for all of the cases. So. Maybe he just needs a little break to breathe, to put some order in his head and emotions. If he calls you back and he sounds ok, than he is oK.
Usually this happens after the first time you do it with him.
Good luck.
OG
2006-10-05 03:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you gave it up on the first day, his impression is that your easy to get at anytime he wishes.
Look. It's ok to have sex, so long as their is understanding between both parties that it's ex and nothing more. On the other hand, if you expect a relationship out of it, 9 out of 10 times, it's not going to work.
You gave it up to soon. The best solution is to change your behavior or have other partners for sex (with protection of course).
If it's a relationship you want, that requires you to build trust with the person your with and then making that move.
Otherwise be realistic about your wants and what comes along with it.
Good luck.
2006-10-05 03:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
what women need to recognize the first time when they see a guy is to tell if they are emotionally available to you and by him not calling you shows that he is not emotionally available to you and he doesn't want anything more than that but if you want to change that you need to let him have his space to figure out that he has committment issues and that it doesnt have anything to do with you and it has everything to do with his fear of an emotional bond with you and what guys won't tell you is that they want an emotional connection just as much as we do but i'm going to give you some tips on how to go about this a guy likes when a girl can be upfront with what they want but they also want you not to be needy and which means by being selfish and and by pretending that you don't need them and your body language has to be the same but don't do it too much because it might turn them into to needy men and you don't need that pretend that you don't want them they will be calling you every minute pretend that you don't want them don't try to convince him you have a connection don't call him and make it seem that you have moved on without him this will let you know what his true motives are towards you
2006-10-05 03:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Still getting over the fact that you allowed them to touch your gorgeous body at all. The body may have finished having an orgasm but the mind is over the moon and way out of the solar system.
Seriously though, they're likely to have just wanted sex. Be careful because that type of mindset usually means that they are having sex with multiple partners.
2006-10-05 03:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff C 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I realize I am about to make a sweeping generalization, but we have been socialized to believe that we shouldn't seem too eager. This is why we wait to call after a date and, oddly, why we sometimes wait after sex to resume contact. It doesn't make much sense, but is something we all seem to learn.
Now that you know that it is just how most guys operate, hopefully you won't think it is weird and you won't read too much into it. Finally, unless your fingers were broken during the sexual act, you could call the guy, especially if you really enjoyed yourself.
2006-10-05 03:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Some guys like sex without the relationship....most guys like sex without the relationship.
Further, men don't really have an emotional connection with sex. It is just physical and doesn't mean anything more unless his girl is having it with some other guy. Then it mean a lot. don't expect men to think of sex the way you do.
2006-10-05 03:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by tightlies 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I would assume they are not wanting commitment, and using the space to keep the relationship from progressing into something more serious. If they don't call or show up the next day, move on, unless you are looking for casual sex.
2006-10-05 03:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by drbernice843 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Some are because they finally got what they worked so hard to get and now they have to wallow in it and brag about it.
Some are to scared to ask if you got off so they are left in the wind thinking did she enjoy it, was it bad and they think she needs a couple of days to forget about it, especially if they lasted like a whole 2 minutes.
And some are listening to their friends and thinking if they call her back to soon she is going to think I am whipped already.
Lots of reasons, thats just a few
2006-10-05 03:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Hi, glitz!
Because they get want the want and return when they want more...like going to the grocery store for "goodies" or the liquor store for "booze". To eliminate this problem, stop handing out "the goods"...stop tossing pearls to the swine. The right guy(s) will return and the wrong ones will not, and who needs the wrong ones, anyway?
2006-10-05 03:06:21 · answer #10 · answered by Seneca 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋