Remember that jealousy plays a factor here. One gets the attention and the two others don't so they just grab her and tell her let's go to the other side of the club and make sure to brainwash her that this guy is a creep or Mr. Wrong ?
2006-10-05 02:46:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go up and give it a try!! If she is that easily persuaded by her friends then she probably isn't the type of girl you want to hang with anyway. After all she's old enough to be in a club she's old enough to make decisions for herself.
Plan B: If you really have your heart set on her, then make friends with all 3 of the girls, then make your move.
2006-10-05 02:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look them all in the eyes first. That'll play a big part on them NOT convincing her. Then go for her and only for her. If you do this right two good things will happen.
1. You'll gain the respect of being an honest guy.
2. She'll be intrigued and feel special because you just wanted her.
2006-10-05 09:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kren777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question. i've been in your shoes. thats why when the friends wont leav her alone, send in your friends as wingmen. the wingman doesn't have to go out with her friends, but simply run interference for you to make your move. if they can distract the hating friends 4 just a couple minutes,that should buy you time 2 buy her a drink. get the digits quick, her friends will be back.
2006-10-05 09:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by T,Lincoln 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach her directly and let her know you are interested. Also say hello and be polite to her friends but remember it is her decision where she chooses to focus her attention. I have been in this situation many times and sometimes it takes more than one encounter to make it happen so good luck!
2006-10-05 09:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by roscodog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true. They're mostly all in there for the same reason. She gets one, a few seconds later some other guys come up after them. With me and my girls, there's no jealousy. Do your thang....if you see somebody you want to talk to, go for it!!!!
2006-10-05 09:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Charlies_Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy them all drinks and approach the friend. But don't buy drinks for more than 2 additional friends. That would look desperate. Drinks for 2 or less friends looks generous.
2006-10-05 09:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is to have two of your friends came with u but not all at once have one friend go first and while he is talkin to her friend, you'll go for the one u want and have your other friend come along and play wing man . that should work
2006-10-05 10:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysbeenlikethis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is: just to approach. Invite her to go with you to another place where you both can chat at reserved place.
2006-10-05 09:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by sonhador? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take 2 of your friends with u and let them hit on her two friends
2006-10-05 09:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go over and talk her.if her friends are really her friends they will encourage her.just be your self.
2006-10-05 09:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by Alexandrea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋