me and my boyfriend have been talking for a little over a month, then he asked me out, n its been like 3 to 4 days of us being bf/gf plus talking for over a month and he told me he loved me today to my face? do you think he means it or is just saying it? because it has only been about a month in a half of us being together can u fall in love that quick?
2006-10-05 02:59:22 · 17 answers · asked by megan c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe not, depends how old he is and if he is mature.....lust is sometimes confused with love.
2006-10-05 03:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by peppermint_paddy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think he is beginning to have strong feelings for you and has no other way to describe them but to say he loves you. For example, my boyfriend told me he loved me after about 2 weeks because he had never felt that way about anyone else before and didn't know how else to express his feelings.
The only reason your bf would be saying it if it wasn't true is if he was trying to get laid, so if that isn't the case, he's probably got the feelings to back it up. Also, remember, you guys are still in your "honeymoon" phase of your relationship, where you still get butterflies in your stomach and stuff, so it's very likely that you can fall in love that quickly now, but you can also fall out of love that quickly as well, because you don't know each other all that well yet. So don't worry if he already has these feelings for you, because it's normal when you're crazy about someone.
2006-10-05 10:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by mooo83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I do believe in my heart that it is possible for you to fall in love that quick. My husband and I did also in as little as two weeks. We got married 8 months later and we have been married for 2 yrs. so far. So love is possible, but you also have to be careful that the person means what they say and not just telling you things to get other things from you or out of you. Some will lie, but not all! I learned though from life experiences make sure that he or she is really in love with you for who you are on the inside and not just by seeing what is on the outside..that does make a difference. Also another rule to remember is make sure you know them well before making big decisions!
2006-10-05 10:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by my_beautifulbrown_eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! There is a difference for having love for someone and being "in" love with someone. Give it some time, because you can be feeling each other now, but how long is it going to last? You haven't been through anything yet to be in full fledge love with each other. And it sounds like you guys are teenagers, and I have been there done that. I am not saying that he doesn't love you, but it can't run that deep that quick. Give it some more time before you bank on that.
2006-10-05 10:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more than likely not love yet - he's saying because he really likes you and he wants you to know that, but real love is far far away from what it sounds like you guys have at the moment.
Things could turn into love between you, but it's not there yet honey.
Take care and make the most of it!
Lx
2006-10-05 10:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lauren A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks he means it. Some people fall in love fast, others it builds up over time.
2006-10-05 10:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think love has a time line. I've fallen in love in that sort amount of time too.I just think it all depends on the people in the situation. Best of luck to ya!
2006-10-05 10:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has a lot of feelings for you and think that he loves you and if you give it enough time I'm sure he will mean it when he says it...trust me I've been there...
2006-10-05 10:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by KaKes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, love has no time constraints. we used to have these neighboors that knew eachother 3 days. they are still going strong, after 45 years of marriage!
2006-10-05 10:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people fall in love at first sight
2006-10-05 10:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by wildone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋