we were friends.it is in a way one sided feelings.but i feel special when i am with him.i had proposed to him few years ago and he refused.he doesnt want to break the freindship although.the reason i am facing this problem is because he is the man who used to love my sis before her marriage.that was also a one sisded love.now i dont know why i am still am optimistic.am i befooling myself.what shall i do
2006-10-05 02:56:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We're not psychics, we can't predict the future. However, we can give advice.
My advice is for you to tell him something like, "You're a great friend, but I'm a woman, and I need a man who can be more than just a friend. I want that man to be you. If you really don't want that, I understand, but then we won't be seeing each other so much. I need to find a man who treats me as a woman and not just as a friend, and I can't wait for you forever".
He might be shocked and confused at first, and he may not give you an immediate answer. However, if he has feelings for you, he'll come back and propose to you. If he doesn't, then you'll know he'll never be more than a friend. Then you can move on and find someone else.
Good luck!
2006-10-05 03:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love and reality is more than win/lose. Im sure yu will win the heart with tricky situations that may impress him for the time being. I hv every doubt, he will regain his attitude after shorter time again. So be practical, world has much bigger than we think and life is yurs....................................Go ahead look further and explore new avenues.......!!
2006-10-05 11:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Rohit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be successful, the chances are certainly better if it's not one-sided.
You may win his heart if you are so determined.
If you win his heart, he may marry you.
2006-10-05 10:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What answers you expect from us...???? He loved your sister..... and she got married ......now you love him...he is refusing...you want him....The World may be thinking that Indians are very very mad for Love, Girl Friend, Boy Friend, Sex, Marriage .etc...etc.....and they even think that Indians have no other job .than this...Why dont you concentrate on you studies or your job???????
2006-10-05 10:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by NUPAKRY 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I sense disturbances can occur in a future with that man.
2006-10-05 10:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
even if he accept u or marry you,i guess there might be many problems in future.and wht if he still likes your sister after marriage.why dont find someone else?
2006-10-05 10:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by simplewife20 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u r optimistic ...appreciate ur attitude ...but give some space the wprld is big ....be a good friend with him
2006-10-05 16:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has his own good reasons to refuse you...
and you definately have your own reasons to love him...
please dont take hasty decisions...
give him some time... if oyur love is true.. .then he will definately come to you...
2006-10-05 10:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by richard k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oops ..........................................
2006-10-05 10:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by cuty_gal_tisha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋