Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

It's been 3 months...he use to call every day....then once a week...how do I keep busy and keep from calling him?

2006-10-05 03:14:38 · 5 answers · asked by Lovely B 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 03:14:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my family has me my mum and my brother...mum is now on her 3rd marrage and i think its not going to last and i need you advice on how to keep them together.i don't want to see her get divorced again. i think it will crush her again and i can't see that happen. they never seem happy anymore and i keep finding myself stuck in the middle coz i love them both to bits but when it comes down to it my mums my mum and i have to stick by her...don't i?

2006-10-05 03:14:27 · 21 answers · asked by kate_gothic_slag 1 in Marriage & Divorce

pleas help me!!!

2006-10-05 03:14:22 · 1 answers · asked by gratefulbuehler 3 in Singles & Dating

And NOT get caught?

2006-10-05 03:13:15 · 53 answers · asked by captainkren 1 in Singles & Dating

According to Nivea's song "Complicated" she states how love is not always complicated. No, but most of the time it is...What's the deal with some people? I mean, you don't want to rush into anything, especially when you have been hurt so many times before. And when you do develop a friendship with someone you maybe think it can lead into more. You don't want to move too fast because that's just the respectable thing to do. But at the same time your not moving fast enough for them??? And when you finally decide "okay, I will give this dude a chance" then all of a sudden it's too late. I mean, okay you lost interest because it took too long for me to come around? But at the same time you must have never been "that" interested to just loose interest that fast...I don't know, it's so damn "COMPLICATED". I mean with every decision it's like either I'm moving too fast or not fast enough...And yea it's easy to just walk away from the matter especially when you were taking it slow and there are no ties holding you together, but it's so unexpected, even when you thought it would lead into more. It's not fair but hey, life's truley not fair..."It's Complicated"

2006-10-05 03:12:41 · 5 answers · asked by Mizz_Miami 2 in Singles & Dating

when you come home or would you go out and pay for one?

2006-10-05 03:12:18 · 28 answers · asked by littlered 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-05 03:12:02 · 19 answers · asked by james44_20 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to know,my mom friend has a 17 year old that slept with the neighbors husband.This is not the 1st time little Ms.Thang has done this.That's why my mom friend always haf to move.So where do you draw the line?I told her stick foot up her azz.My mom friend works 2 jobs to ensure her azz has everyhting she wants and needs,but I told my mom that's the problem.Any suggestions?

2006-10-05 03:11:17 · 5 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been dating this guy for 3years and he has a child by someone i really hate. Itreally bothers me and i dont know what i can do. At first i didnt care because I never saw the kid but now he asked me to marry him and i dont know if i can. What can i do? The child is always gonna be in his life, should i back out?

2006-10-05 03:10:39 · 12 answers · asked by LIVEit2TheFullEST 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's the story. My sister is playing two guys. One she talks with everyday and feeds him a bunch of $hit, pretending to be something she's not. Both men have been in Iraq for quite sometime. The one she's kept daily contact with sent her $500 to get him some clothes and to have money to come and see him for a few days when he comes in. She never went to see him or give him the clothes or the $$$$. She keeps leading him on like she intends to go. Well, the other guy flew in the other day and she miraculously found a way down. She spent the night with him. Never met him before in her life, just online romance. I think the other guy needs to be informed and since she won't do it, I'm going to! Oh, I forgot to mention this guy she has lied to and misled is her best friends soon to be exhusband. But she is in the dark too. My sister keeps telling her "I don't know who it could be." Who would tell and who would keep it to themselves?

2006-10-05 03:10:11 · 12 answers · asked by sweetestthing 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-05 03:09:23 · 31 answers · asked by emily_jane2379 5 in Weddings

I love my husband dearly, and he has really cut down on his drinking. Every few months though he will drink to excess, and makes foolish decisions. The last one resulted in his being arrested and spending the night in county and they released him the next day when he sobered up. He gets very defensive and we cannot even talk about drinking. He is a wonderful husband and we have so much fun together, but, every time this happens I become a little bit more resentful. I HAVE stood by his side for many years, when other people would have walked, so I am committed to my husband and care about his well-being, but am afraid I am reaching the end of my patience. Please do not call him negative names. This is serious situation and I need objective answers, not judgements.

2006-10-05 03:07:57 · 15 answers · asked by Dolphin73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i thought that i was divorced from my first husband 4 years ago,so i remarried and found out yesterday that we are not divorced and that he lied about going to court.what do i need to do to fix all of this?get an annulment from my husband now and re-divorce my first husband?so confused

2006-10-05 03:07:57 · 14 answers · asked by sarah 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone had success with a long distance relationship, if so then how did you manage to cope with the seperation?

2006-10-05 03:07:39 · 4 answers · asked by Shane J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 14 years. I have 4 children. My husband and I don't fight and scream at each other, in fact we don't talk much at all. There has been a lot of things happen that have made me unable to depend on him or even trust him. I filed for divorce about 4 months ago, but decided not to go through with it. I am sooo scared that my children will be angry at me, and the fear of them possibly choosing to live with their dad scares me to death. Because the two oldest are 14 and 17, they would get to decide for themselves where they live. It is so hard!! I am not happy, but I would rather be unhappy than cause my children unhappiness. Has anyone else been through this? Any advice? We are in counceling, and I am honestly trying, but the feelings just aren't there anymore.

2006-10-05 03:07:26 · 12 answers · asked by Kailey 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 03:07:12 · 12 answers · asked by james44_20 2 in Singles & Dating

He could have moved anywhere. The City is not that big. Had he moved to the opposite part of town, he could get here to pick up the kids in ten minutes. He even plays ball with the kids in the field NEXT DOOR TO MY HOUSE! What is this illness. He even shows up in the coffee shop where I work part time. ( In addition to my full time job. I need two to support myself now.) Anyway, is he just a mean A---------?

2006-10-05 03:06:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 03:06:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 03:06:34 · 9 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 03:05:52 · 27 answers · asked by Elaine 1 in Weddings

Getting married Saturday and concerned about a couple of things in my relationship.

2006-10-05 03:05:46 · 17 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-05 03:04:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what about dessert? do you ever make boxed or frozen meals? do you think that's bad? Its just me and my three kids and they prefer chicken nuggets, fries, mac n cheese, taquitos, pizzas, hamburger helper, etc... rather than a meal I put great effort into. I feel guilty, but Im just wondering about you other moms. Honest answers, please.

2006-10-05 03:04:45 · 25 answers · asked by crazytown 2 in Family

If you visit a US high school these days that does not have uniforms, you'll notice that a fairly high percentage of the girls look like walking ads for a brothel - navel rings and thong straps, as well as a large portion of their breasts are all on display. Back in my day it was mini skirts. These girls wear them too sometimes.
So, I am wondering why are boys getting punished for even remotely suggestive or teasing comments like "you'd look good as a stripper". I'm willing to bet a boy could even be punished for saying a girl "you look fine", or some other such innocuous comment.
Is it hypocrisy that the same parents who allow their girls to go to school looking like that, would consider filinf charges for sexual harassment for something so innocent?

2006-10-05 03:04:37 · 6 answers · asked by Zelda Hunter 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you get pregnant by a married man and you get an abortion.what do that say about you and the relationship with the married man.

2006-10-05 03:04:36 · 15 answers · asked by holla 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-05 03:04:25 · 7 answers · asked by tdashnay 2 in Weddings

2006-10-05 03:02:08 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He also dont mind that I am sleeping maybe 3 hours a night to try to keep up with his demands .He sleeps from 8 to 12 hours a night.He also rattles off a list of chores every morning and a time I should have them done such as you have 20 min to do dishes 10 min to clean floor ect. ect. ect.He calls this my job yet I have to beg for money.I think Im becomeing depressed. Short of leaveing him what can I do to help him see he is an azzhole?

2006-10-05 03:01:01 · 33 answers · asked by Lilly K 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is anyone willing to part with any points? If you are uninterested in collecting them and wouldnt mind parting with them I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks.

2006-10-05 03:00:24 · 2 answers · asked by rybo510 4 in Family