According to Nivea's song "Complicated" she states how love is not always complicated. No, but most of the time it is...What's the deal with some people? I mean, you don't want to rush into anything, especially when you have been hurt so many times before. And when you do develop a friendship with someone you maybe think it can lead into more. You don't want to move too fast because that's just the respectable thing to do. But at the same time your not moving fast enough for them??? And when you finally decide "okay, I will give this dude a chance" then all of a sudden it's too late. I mean, okay you lost interest because it took too long for me to come around? But at the same time you must have never been "that" interested to just loose interest that fast...I don't know, it's so damn "COMPLICATED". I mean with every decision it's like either I'm moving too fast or not fast enough...And yea it's easy to just walk away from the matter especially when you were taking it slow and there are no ties holding you together, but it's so unexpected, even when you thought it would lead into more. It's not fair but hey, life's truley not fair..."It's Complicated"
2006-10-05 03:12:41 · 5 answers · asked by Mizz_Miami 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is only as complicated as you make it.
You see love should be simple. But when we require it to go a certain way or be a certain way, then we are putting constraints on it and that makes it complicatied.
Love is all about meeting someone and finding everything you can about them, supporting their needs and cherrishing the connection. Everything else is a requirement or need that complicates Love.
Expectation is the nemesis of Love.
2006-10-05 03:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah...i feel ya there...i think we've all been there before and if they haven't they will in the future we just gotta move on after that and get over ur fear of being hurt i mean it sucks to get hurt but u just gotta keep it up...
2006-10-05 10:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by KaKes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is your point? you are reading into to much of love...just let things be and let it happen when it does.
2006-10-05 10:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's complicated but that's life.
2006-10-05 10:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by alh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okkk....... and your point is?
2006-10-05 10:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋