He could have moved anywhere. The City is not that big. Had he moved to the opposite part of town, he could get here to pick up the kids in ten minutes. He even plays ball with the kids in the field NEXT DOOR TO MY HOUSE! What is this illness. He even shows up in the coffee shop where I work part time. ( In addition to my full time job. I need two to support myself now.) Anyway, is he just a mean A---------?
2006-10-05 03:06:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am so sorry. But a happy life is the best "revenge".
2006-10-05 03:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, that isn't nothing.. My daughter's aunt's husband was caught cheating with their next door neighbor. And she stayed in the projects so they share the same porch space! Now that's too close for comfort! And she was friends with the girl and her husband lives with the girl now. They have a 14 year old daughter and he doesn't do anything for her now. Now that is messed up. But yeah, that is dead wrong though. But you know what she did? She replaced his *** quickly. I think that numbed the pain a lot, and she's really happy with the guy she is with. I know she's a hell of a lot happier than when her husband was with her still. I think that was meant to happen because she laughs more, she isn't as bitter anymore. So all I can advise to you is just pick up the pieces.... and take his *** to court when you get your money right.... and get alimony or child support out of it.. That's hard workin 2 jobs and takin care of the kids...
2006-10-05 10:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the psyco for being so obsessed with him. You are hurt and upset yes, but the man has a right to live where ever he wants without your approval. get over it and live your life in a gappier sense that you are not married to a loser and can h ave a great life and he can have a great life. Be thnkful he is happy and be thankful he did not kick your snobby but to the curve. I hope you realize what you wrote sounds like you are a control freak who is mad because you can not control him or other things
2006-10-05 10:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is very cruel and hurtful for him to do that. he will swear that it wasn't intentional and all of that. You are going to forever be reminded of his cruelty as long as you see him in the streets on a regular basis with the new one. Picking up and starting all over is easier said then done but you may have to make a choice in the matter or you will be living everyday miserable on what he sees in her and not in you.
2006-10-05 10:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Charisma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a cock. Some people have no consciencness. That was very cruel. I get that he might want to be by the children, but to move so close is rubbing crap in your face and that is so very wrong
2006-10-05 10:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Evie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! Sounds like he's trying to do that to either rub it in your face or get back w/u by appearing all the time. If I was you I would get allimony and move away from him.
2006-10-05 10:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by ceces2261 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter if he lives next door or across the country-he left you and in his mind he is not affected by your presence anymore since he has moved on with someone else. don't give this jerk anymore of your precious time and energy, girl. click the dust off your prada heels and MOVE ON!
2006-10-05 10:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by evonne i 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one.... Is he still with the other woman? If yes Yeah hes an AZZ,, if not maybe he is trying to tell u he wants his family back. Good luck and dont kill him.
2006-10-05 10:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by blwatson41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is just been an asshole, but what you need to do is make sure to dated a lot of guys and make sure the pas by his house every time the you go out with somebody
2006-10-05 10:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to be close to you and the kids, so he can see what your all up to.Drive bys are a good way of keeping tabs on someone.
2006-10-05 10:09:58 · answer #10 · answered by joy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you said yourself, the city not so big; although they could be more considerate of the situation. maybe you have resources to move as this can only cause you anger and bitterness---be the bigger person-hug
2006-10-05 10:14:16 · answer #11 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋