Here's the story. My sister is playing two guys. One she talks with everyday and feeds him a bunch of $hit, pretending to be something she's not. Both men have been in Iraq for quite sometime. The one she's kept daily contact with sent her $500 to get him some clothes and to have money to come and see him for a few days when he comes in. She never went to see him or give him the clothes or the $$$$. She keeps leading him on like she intends to go. Well, the other guy flew in the other day and she miraculously found a way down. She spent the night with him. Never met him before in her life, just online romance. I think the other guy needs to be informed and since she won't do it, I'm going to! Oh, I forgot to mention this guy she has lied to and misled is her best friends soon to be exhusband. But she is in the dark too. My sister keeps telling her "I don't know who it could be." Who would tell and who would keep it to themselves?
2006-10-05 03:10:11 · 12 answers · asked by sweetestthing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Both guys are back from Iraq. I've already told her she needs to tell the truth. She will not do it!
2006-10-05 03:17:01 · update #1
Wow that sounds like something my sister would do!! You are the bigger person, by intending to set things straight. I think that this man who sent her money needs to know what your sister is up to, without the knowledge he could step into deeper water. HONESTY is very important as are moral and ethics, sounds like your sister lacks all of the above. I agree inform the guy and while you are at it inform her best friend. I would....
This might teach your sister to keep it real and a hard lesson in respect and honesty.
Good luck!!!
2006-10-05 03:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by razzyrascal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh, wee, boo. that is serious.
the only reason why i might spill it is because of her best friend, you have to know her too, and she may be a friend to you as well as your sis. and about the guy she spent the night with and never met before, that is her buisness. whatever she may have done that night fortunately does not affect you.
however, the idiot with the $500 shopping spree money he sent her to buy him some clothes, he will just have to chop as a loss. that is his fault. if he is her bestfriend's husband, he deserved to get played because he is just as wrong as she is.
i can absolutely feel where you are coming from on telling, but you have to remember that she is your sister, and that can ruin you two forever. is this worth it? although she is 100% wrong for what she is doing, you have an obligation to your blood. then there is the whole thing of maybe you can't trust her yourself, because of what she is doing, so your respect is lost for her anyway. maybe you should tell, because if she can stand in her girl's face and lie about something so serious, she may could do the same thing to you.
2006-10-05 03:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by *HOT*GHETTO*MESS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i use to do the same thing as what your sister is doing all except for spending the night with online hard dickkkks. but i learned my lessons the hard way, because those guys has friends, and word gets around. if you decide not to bud in and make things right, then she will get whats coming to her soon enough. all the good guys will already have been used by her, and she will be left with nothing. she will be the one who will feel used at some point.
2006-10-05 03:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by legalsecretary27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that I would tell while the guy was in Iraq. His mental status might not be good and you could cause him all kinds of anguish. Wait until he comes back. Once he is back though I would tell him.
2006-10-05 03:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by curiosity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! No offense, but SOMEONE needs to bring that skank down to earth, and no one else is better for the job than you. You must be a wonderful person to have such empathy for your sisters' victims. I'd do the same thing. I'm sure she'll forgive you for it.
2006-10-05 03:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by mooo83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they never met and you know her login and password, login to her account, send a picture of a dude to that guy and apologize that you were lying and that you are actually a guy. That will clear the mess up...
Or just leave it be until it blows up in her face.
2006-10-05 03:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that none of your business if she don't tell nobody you should not tell anyone. Not trying to get smart or anything but you know where I'm coming from so no I would not say nothing. I will keep it to myself.
2006-10-05 03:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Alayshia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do the same as you. Id tell. Its so wrong what shes doing. I feel sorry for everyone involved.
2006-10-05 03:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell, they go through soooooooo much over there serving our country, to be used by people in a country there serving for is ashame!
2006-10-05 03:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by ceces2261 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would do the exact same thing. You have to do what is right regardless. Be strong. Good choice.
2006-10-05 03:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋