I'm not cheating on him but he thinks i am, he doesnt believe in being just friends with a man now what if someone calls n if he trys to be very inquisitive he gets insulted i know some of my guy friend who would do that. Im almost closing down n heading home should i expect the worst? im very scared coz he gets so mad
I think i should just give up on my marriege coz i dont even have a baby with him, he's just too much this is mental toture.
2006-10-05 02:47:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's abusive what he is doing to you. Abuse is not just physical. It is also, mental and emotional. If you don't have children, I would get out. Marriage is suppost to be full of trust. He is sending out major red flags, and if you don't want it to possibly get worse get going on out of the marriage. Especially since you are scared of him. You shouldn't have to be scared of your spouse. I say RUN.
2006-10-05 02:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Evie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DId you not know that he was like this before marrying him?
Why give up so soon? I dont see how you two got married when he doesnt trust you but in anycase. What you can do is invite your male friends over to your home while your husband is there, sit down have dinner and make them get to know each other. That way it wont be just your guy friends, they'll become matual friends. If that doesnt make him comfortable then you can try counseling.
Marriage is not a easy ride, try your very best before giving up.
2006-10-05 09:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your safety you should get away from him, at least for a trial period, nobody should have to put up with abuse af any kind, but be ready for him to really blow up , wish there was something else you could do but at this point there isnt, Dont be one of those people that just puts up with it. He might be the one cheatting thats Y he gets mad at you .
2006-10-05 09:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you married HIM, and he doesn't want you having guy friends. This is his right as a husband, just as it is yours. You want a bunch of women calling HIM and having a relationship with him too???
"Were just friends" more times than not becomes something else between men and women.
2006-10-05 10:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave and I think you know it. You don't want to spend your life that way, wondering when he' s going to get mad or what he's going to do to try and control you. I think taking your cell phone is one step away from locking you in your room. He is trying to cut off your communication with anyone except him.
2006-10-05 12:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by whitebird002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is the biggest monster and you cant control that. He has trust issues that he refuses to work on. Tell him point blank if he does not get over it and trust you that its over. Trust is a key to a successful relationship
2006-10-05 09:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by blwatson41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is never good when a man needs to taks controll of anyone, and by him taking your cell, he is taking controll. get out as fast as you can, the way he is acting is just rediculous.
2006-10-05 09:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave right away, he sounds like a nut case
2006-10-05 09:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No kids, your unhappy, hes a jealous jerk. Get out now , before it's too late .
2006-10-05 10:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by joy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out now, and sure your just friends
2006-10-05 09:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋