women I have ever dated...in that she is sexy, fun, educated all at the same time...problem is that everyone says that women who dress like her...tight jeans...etc...and have tattoos like her (on her shoulder...I think it is cute), and smoke cigarettes (she is a smoker) are trash..sluts, easy etc...I really like her, so what should I do...I like all of this and more including the fact she is fun and highly educated.
2006-10-05 02:51:13 · 6 answers · asked by darrin_8734 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have always heard it said that opposites attract-so it must be true in your case. I think it is a plus--she is not trying to be something that she is not--she knows who she is and is very comfortable with that person. Truthfully, I like that in a person. I'm thinking that maybe you could learn something from her--maybe you are not totally what you think you are (no insult intended). I know that things that I was taught and raised with--as I get older, I find that some of those things are not "me" and my outlook on life isn't just the same on those things.I think you should do what you feel comfortable with. If you value other peoples opinion over your own feelings--then dump the lady. If you are comfortable with the ralationship and can ignore other opinions and defent your ralationship, I think you should stick with the relationship and see what adventure life has in store for you. Good luck.
2006-10-05 05:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she like you? Ask her out. No one can tell you who are supposed to be attracted to. If you like her that is what matters. See if the relationship will work. Get to know her. Make sure that you have the important things in common. Such as your beliefs in life, how to raise kids, does one want kids and one does not, religion, or whatever. There must be some common threads in order for the relationship to work. All the other differences won't matter b/c they will just add to the realtionship and help to stimulate interest in one another.
2006-10-05 03:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by Leash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel shallow if I answered this. Usually if a man is attracted in a woman, and he mentions a body part, he wants sex. Not the woman. I don't go around looking for big booty hoes like majority of people. Big breasts are a bonus, not a necessity. --- I like big butts and I cannot lie. --- Screw it, I'm a boobs person. I adore Cancer risings. They have nice curves, they're thick, and they have big boobs. But with all that comes a shyness and MODESTY.
2016-03-27 05:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just as you cannot judge a book by its cover ...you cannot judge someone by what they wear ..clothes tattoos and smoking don't make her trash. she's .just a women who feels confident in who she is and can do what she wants and doesn't care what people think .. you know what shes like sooo .... ignore the trash talkers follow your heart people who talk trash are worth a hill of beans just out to put someone down that doesn't conform to their ideas of how people should dress act etc !!
2006-10-05 03:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what other people think?
If your educated you'll understand that what other people think about you doesnt matter. Its your life, live it the way you want to.
Dont judge a book by its cover.
2006-10-05 02:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care what other people think. It's your life, not theirs. People who judge others by the way they look are uneducated and narrow minded immature dumb as_ es
2006-10-05 02:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋