I am 29 years old and married for 1 year now, and very happy, but befor my husband I sleept with 33 other man, I traveld a lot and meet so many nice man, of course i allways used prodection, I had fun and it was OK for me to do that, but one of my girlfriend told me, that is to much. Sorry but my English is not that good.
2006-10-05 02:52:13 · 24 answers · asked by mungi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a guy told me he'd slept with 36 women. I was horrified. It's not really the number, so much as... the type of people he hung around, he was sure to have gotten a disease at some point.
If you've gotten tested for diseases, and you're healthy, and aren't sleeping around with anyone besides your husband... then it's past and done now, and I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-10-05 04:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
To me this is a lot like cars. I drive a rented car hard, treat it like crap and then get rid of it. But when I buy a car to keep, I want no more than a couple prior owners. I wouldn't buy anything that had 33 prior owners. Sorry, but you're a bit of a used car and I wouldn't marry you with 33 men in your past.
2006-10-05 03:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by John 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You kept count eh. It does not matter, your past is your past. As long as you don't want to relive it considering your married now. Leave it in the past. Oh, If your husband asks about it don't tell him anything. Don't lie just questions like that only bring disaster no matter what the count is.
2006-10-05 03:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your past cannot be changed it is what it is. Many people have had pre-martial sex before meeting their spouse.
For all the bible thumpers out there..Judge not, lest ye be judged. Only God will judge as he sees fit.
The important thing is that you will be faithful to your husband through the good and bad times.
Your husband loves you for who you are and I'm sure you love your husband. That is what is most important.
2006-10-05 03:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Now it's done, isn't it? You can't change it, and if you don't have any reason to regret it, let the past be in the past, go on with your life and keep your enjoyable memories. I think it might actually be easier to be devoted to your husband now, because there are not things left to do from your younger years.
2006-10-05 02:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you slept with one man that you regret having slept with, then that is too many.
If you enjoyed them and have no other regrets, then no one else can tell you there is only a certain amount that still lets you think of yourself as a 'good girl'.
Now, here is the important part:
No one can tell you it was too many men if you don't tell them how many men it was.
A lady does not discuss numbers with anyone. It is none of their business.
2006-10-05 02:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by justa 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Just don't tell your husband, if you do tell him how many don't tell him who. It might make him real uncomfortable.
I would say with that much experience their would be no need for you to cheat.
Maybe it would have been too much for your gf but not you and now you are satisfied with what you have.
2006-10-05 03:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well. That is alot of men but as long as you used protection. But are you going to be satisfied with just one man now?
2006-10-05 02:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by deedermarie 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, the past is the past and you are married now, so why worry about it!! But since you are asking for answers, then, Yes, it is quite alot.
2006-10-05 02:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
yes you did sleep with too many many men
what counts is that you don't sleep with 33 other men while you are married
2006-10-05 03:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by wondergirl 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋